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to Rosalie - Honest concerns
but did they get an honest response?
In June 2000, long
standing Way follower John R.(graduate of the
7th Way Corps) wrote a letter to newly appointed
Way president Rosalie Rivenbark concerning recent
events in The Way.
Here is his original letter to her, her
inadequate (skirting the issues) reply, a follow up letter from John and then
the final outcome of this correspondence.
WayDale asks: Is this what Way followers can expect when they
ask their leadership for honest answers to honest questions? Will all Way
followers who ask honest questions be ejected from TWI as this couple was?
Is this yet another example of how The Way
keep its people "fully informed"
as their PR man Rico Magnelli boasted recently. Magnelli, speaking on
behalf of the Way trustees recently said:
"Anyone
that has ever been involved in our ministry honestly knows that we
explain decisions involving our ministry from A to Z, from soup to nuts,
to our followers. This has been the pattern since 1942....."
click here for Magnelli's
comments
----correspondence begins here ----
June 18, 2000
Rev. Rosalie Rivenbark
The Way International
Box 328
New Knoxville, OH 45871
Dear Rev. Rivenbark,
It has been on my heart to share with you some of my observations. I am a
long-standing believer who has been on the field in the same area, Tampa, FL for
21 years. A graduate of the 7th Corps, I am happily married to a
wonderful woman of God, a graduate of the 6th Corps, who got involved
in the ministry when she was 16 and has stood faithfully since. We own a
successful and thriving business in the Tampa Bay area and have a good
reputation within and without the ministry.
The Way Ministry is failing as an organization. Most of these failures can be
attributed to Rev. Martindale and other leaders in the ministry who did not take
a stand and speak up to stop his bad decisions or to replace him sooner. The
reasons for the failures in the ministry are too numerous to discuss here. These
are some of my observations:
1.) Thousands of believers (along with their abundant sharing) have
unnecessarily left or been forced out of the ministry and far fewer have joined
in their places. After a while an organization needs to look to itself as to
perhaps what they are doing wrong to get these kinds of results.
2.) The leadership style in the ministry has been too harsh due to Rev.
Martindale’s influences. The micro management of the followers of the Way has
been unbearable for most.
3.) There are few new people who are drawn to the ministry. Most who do come
do not stay involved very long because they quickly get the sense of hardness
and its accompanying dullness. Most current believers are not even excited about
bringing new people to this ministry, as they do not want the new people exposed
to the same treatment they have been subjected to these past years.
4.) Our foundational class "The Way of Abundance and Power" is too
advanced for new people. This class has not proven to be a success. That means
it is failing to meet the needs of new people. Many believers on the field do
not promote this product. Do we really need taped classes when there is such a
wealth of qualified leadership that can teach the foundational principles and
meet the particular needs of their congregations?
5.) Finances – The financial lives of the believers have been under too
much scrutiny. The "debt stance" that the ministry has taken, in my
view, has cost the ministry millions of dollars contrary to its desired outcome.
Many believers silently disagree (because they are afraid to speak up) about the
debt teaching Rev. Martindale has forced into the fabric of the ministry. This
hard core financial stand is simply not working. Believers’ want to buy homes
and many cannot pay cash for such a large purchase. In a nutshell, each and
every situation should be analyzed on its merit with a view of living within
ones’ means. What’s right for one person may be wrong for someone else.
Anyone with depth of the word and with worldly financial knowledge about
finances, investing and real estate knows that to say "Owe no man anything….end
of story" is unreasonable and in many cases counterproductive in our day
and time. Not to mention that using Rom.13:8 to teach about personal finances
takes it out of the context of verses 1 through 7 referring to the "higher
powers" in the household.
6.) The Way International seems to have missed out on taking advantage of the
vast network of technology that is prevalent in running a successful enterprise
today. This can, in the long run, cost an organization dearly. This technology
has gotten cheaper and is more efficient than ever before. Instead of embracing
some of these technologies to their advantage, the ministry seems to be
discouraging their use.
7.) We feel that Rev. Martindale should be on the field not at International
Headquarters, and that he and his family should be assisted in finding housing
and employment away from HQ. It disturbs us that he remains active Way Corps and
clergy, that our abundant sharing is paying for legal fees resulting from his
sexual improprieties, and that he would even remain employed by the Way
International. His current status is a great departure from the way he has
handled the offenses of many others in past years. An immediate termination
would seem to be the most logical, biblical and sane handling of this situation.
To do otherwise gives the appearance that it is just business as usual with our
ABS paying the way.
I enjoy focusing on solutions rather than problems. I believe this situation
is not hopeless but I believe that dramatic changes need to happen to produce
fruit again as we have seen in past years in our ministry. I believe that if the
above issues along with others are eventually resolved that genuine godly
solutions will come into fruition. I would like to see the ministry succeed
again and I would like to help.
Rev. Rivenbark, I could not have dared write this letter a few years ago for
fear of being confronted if not marked and avoided. That climate already seems
to be changing so that I can now share my heart without fear of retribution. I
don’t really care anymore about the consequences that could follow. I now
realize that if I really care about helping to salvage what remains of this
ministry I should speak up before it is too late. You have my permission to
share this letter with others. You are also welcome to call me at any time
regarding these matters.
Sincerely,
John R.
Tel # removed
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Rosalie’s handwritten response dated about a
month later, July 14, 2000
"Dear John,
God bless you
abundantly. I would like for you to come and
visit us at headquarters. We’d house you and
feed you, and show you around for a couple
of days. This is the only way I know that
could resolve your concerns. Come and see
for yourself. Many of your points seem to
reflect Internet defaming rather than what
actually exists. I’d be happy to sit with
you and discuss your suggestions.
Love,
Rosalie Rivenbark"
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My response back to Rosalie one week later
July 21, 2000
Rev. Rosalie Rivenbark
The Way International
Box 328
New Knoxville, OH 45871
Dear Rev. Rivenbark,
While we appreciate your invitation to visit headquarters, this is not
practical for us at this time. My concerns clearly have nothing to do with
"coming to see" how things are at headquarters. Having spent my
interim year there in 1978, I saw then what a beautiful and peaceful place it
was. I am sure things are fine at headquarters. It is reckless to bury our heads
in the sands of denial when our ministry is in demise. Lets not make that ever
so common mistake that organizations make when they are failing. It seems odd
that you said "this is the only way I know that could resolve your
concerns". Are you in essence saying that if we do not visit headquarters
our concerns will not be resolved? Does the Word not work everywhere? Do you not
have other communication methods available such as e-mail or telephone?
Come and see what? Maybe things are fine at headquarters, but that is not the
case on the field. As Dr. always taught, the life of the ministry is on the
field in the household fellowships. Without them there is no reason to have a
headquarters! We are only two people out of many in the household who feel the
same way we do. It would be more profitable if the Board of Trustees were to
discuss these and other matters with the entire household with a view towards
concrete and godly solutions.
The concerns expressed are not Internet driven and certainly not meant in any
way as defamations. On the contrary, I want to see this ministry grow and
prosper rather than shrink and fail, and that will require a change of course. I
laid out specific areas where I have honest questions, can you not respond
specifically in kind?
Rosalie, at times it almost seems as if leadership wants the ministry to
perhaps just become a small handful. I have no problem with that except that it
would be best to know the direction we are moving in so that we could work
together. That mission will be accomplished in a few years according to our
current growth rate.
If Rev. Moynihan will allow, I would also like to extend an invitation to you
and the board of Trustees to visit us here on the field to have an open
discussion with all the household believers in Florida with a view towards
concrete and godly solutions. We would be willing to house and feed you and
would pay for your round trip plane fare.
In closing, I would like to say that I would like to help the ministry as I
am sure others do. I am not against its success. I have always enjoyed fighting
for a cause even if it gets me in trouble. I hope you will allow us to help out
in these times when we feel we could be of some benefit.
In Christ,
John R.
Tel # removed
PS: I composed this response yesterday with plans to mail it Monday.
Interestingly, tonight (Saturday) we have been put on spiritual probation and
are not allowed to come to our local fellowship anymore. I do not want this.
Unlike others I am not walking away. I desire to be given the chance to continue
to come. We would like to be allowed to still come to fellowship and to help out
where we can. I told Rev. Paul Giles I would ask you if it is ok and he did not
seem to object to me asking you. This is not a good situation and I would like
to reconcile it as soon as possible. I am of the belief that through productive
and biblical discussions this can be resolved in another way such that we could
still be allowed to come as we desire to. If not, I am sorry that things have
had to end up this way.
----end of correspondence----
Update:
As of today August 18th, 2000 ….still no response back from Ms. Rivenbark.
We are pretty certain we will never be allowed back in the ministry in its
current state.
In 1979 when I was in the Way Corps I wrote a letter
to Dr. Wierwille. At that time he was being attacked by the media who were
accusing him of running a cult. God's Word was moving so dynamically at that
time in our ministry that the adversary was trying anything to stop the
thousands of believers who were being added every year. In hopes of blessing him
at a low time in his life, I wrote him to share of my experiences in Catholic
seminary to show that if anything can be called a cult the Roman Catholic church
would fit that category. I shared with him about how I was raised Roman Catholic
and became very religious in my search for God to the point that I attended a
seminary to become a priest. He liked my letter so much he turned it into a
handout and called it "I Got Out".
It was given out at Advanced Classes for a while. Dr. Wierwille even had me read
it at Advanced Class '79 in front of a huge audience. Sometimes I think I should
write another paper and call it "I Got Out ...Again". I am only glad
Dr. Wierwille is not alive today to see that the ministry he started has indeed
turned into a cult after all.
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