The transparency is a marked difference between how this Methodist church runs and how TWI ran.
I, frankly, don't agree with the decision made by the members of this council, but the fact that the decision is being done in a transparent fashion is an important feature and something that could be emulated by more groups.
The other issue to note is that the pastors here appears to be employees. They are being informed and are desireous of a change. This also is a marked difference between TWI and this Methodist Church. (Having said that, I thought the Methodist Church ran like the Episcopal Church...that is that the clergy was appointed by and located by the bishop of the area...so that is educational for me)
One thing I don't like seeing, however, is that apparently the issues raised are apparently based upon financial concerns and no mention is made of the impact on the pastor's vocation to shepherd his flock, even an assurance that it will make little or no difference. Suppose the pastor chooses to locate in a house 20 miles from the church? He may be happy to endure a commute every day, but what if there is an emergency requiring his presence (e.g., if a parishoner is dying and calls for his/her pastor, a situation calling for some crisis counselling, or whatever)? Presumably the parsonage is located very near the church, which one would assume is pretty well in the center of the parish. This may not be the case if the parson moves his parsonage a good distance away. (caveat: I realize that this may not be an issue in smaller towns, but in larger cities it could very well be an issue). Now maybe Methodists don't really pay much attention to their pastors with the exception of funerals, weddings, and Sunday services, I don't know. But I always had the impression that clergy had sort of a 24X7 responsibility.
Mark, number 1, the district supertendent makes that decision primarily with consent from the bishop in UMC, 2. clergy no longer are moved about every 5 years(been lawsuits by pastors and congregations for such meddling into the local affairs unless doctrine or morality is involved). Districts are like deaniries in RC(sometimes called convocations) with charges being congregations in each county/city. Suggest you buy Handbook on denominations in US, 12th edition from Abingdon Press(Cokesbury in Nashville).
The transparency is a marked difference between how this Methodist church runs and how TWI ran.
I, frankly, don't agree with the decision made by the members of this council, but the fact that the decision is being done in a transparent fashion is an important feature and something that could be emulated by more groups.
I, also, think it's a refreshing change from the way TWI keeps TWIts in the dark like mushrooms. They won't even answer questions when you ask about things. Their definition of keeping their people informed "from soup to nuts" is definitely different from the rest of the world's.
This church has so much transparency that it's a major adjustment for me. They print the budget in the weekly newsletter they provide. It tells how many people were at church last week and how that compares to a year ago. They tell how much money they received and how that compares to a year ago, as well as how that affects the budget - e.g. if there is a surplus or deficit and how much.
They have committees made up of volunteers to assess and investigate issues and decisions as they come up and the committee provides the information for the rest of the church and, as you see in the letter, there is an open meeting for all congregants to come listen, share their views, etc. and vote.
I don't know much about the Methodist religion being raised Southern Baptist, but I do so like the church, the sermons, the many things they do in the community, with other churches and on their own. Everyone is so kind and it seems to be a genuine kindness, not the fake syrupy sweet saccharine kindness of TWI.
I've been able to share and ask questions (sometimes hard questions) without offending people. If I seem to disagree with something they say, then I'm allowed to share that too - and I have, but not in an offensive way and not in a way that derails or detracts from the meeting. I'm still welcome and still treated just as nicely as everyone else is. :) We discuss things - what a concept! Sometimes I change my mind or we just move on.
They have a website that's state of the art, imo, and shockingly so since it is a pretty small church. The sermons are e-mailed to me each week and I can watch the sermon from the previous services on the web by Monday morning.
They just do so many things right! It's exciting to me and the doctrinal issues are so minor and since I'm re-evaluating everything anyway, it's not a big deal. *shrug* The love of God is there and very evident. People are truly happy, blessed, free and living the more abudant life better than I ever saw in TWI.
What a "night & day" difference than how veepee structured things. The damage done continues from generation to generation......until someone with some business smarts and ethical protocols takes the helm. I'm not holding my breath, though.
Another big difference between the UMC and twi is the UMC's slogan: Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors.
The UMC means it!
Oh! Another difference between the UMC and twi is the UMC shows 'the love of God'...and doesn't just give it lip service on the behind of leadershi+ like in twi. Outside of Catholic Charities/Catholic Social Services, the UMC does more for the communities in which their churches are located than twi has ever done for anybody.
One thing I'll say, I've met a lot of Methodist pastors throughout the years. 99% are really nice, caring folks. That's a lot more than I can say for other religious entities.
Glad you are finding something that works for you.
I'm really surprised that I'm still going, since, as a lot of former wayfers I'm sure, I went in looking for a reason to quit going. <_< I still haven't found one.
The ministers ARE real. They share their foibles, idiosyncracies and everyday challenges that so many of us can relate to. They laugh, they have fun, they're just real live down to earth people who love God and His people. They love what they do and it shows.
edited to add: I can't recall standing when they enter a room, either. ;)
The Lutheran Church I have been checking out recently has congregational members vote on important decisions as well. Works for me even tho I am not a member and don't vote. They also have several discussion meetings regarding the upcoming vote before it is taken. Plenty of time for everyone to get all the facts and mull it over. Not every member is required to vote either. Only if they want to. Also works for me after seeing twi mandate stuff for people.
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The transparency is a marked difference between how this Methodist church runs and how TWI ran.
I, frankly, don't agree with the decision made by the members of this council, but the fact that the decision is being done in a transparent fashion is an important feature and something that could be emulated by more groups.
The other issue to note is that the pastors here appears to be employees. They are being informed and are desireous of a change. This also is a marked difference between TWI and this Methodist Church. (Having said that, I thought the Methodist Church ran like the Episcopal Church...that is that the clergy was appointed by and located by the bishop of the area...so that is educational for me)
One thing I don't like seeing, however, is that apparently the issues raised are apparently based upon financial concerns and no mention is made of the impact on the pastor's vocation to shepherd his flock, even an assurance that it will make little or no difference. Suppose the pastor chooses to locate in a house 20 miles from the church? He may be happy to endure a commute every day, but what if there is an emergency requiring his presence (e.g., if a parishoner is dying and calls for his/her pastor, a situation calling for some crisis counselling, or whatever)? Presumably the parsonage is located very near the church, which one would assume is pretty well in the center of the parish. This may not be the case if the parson moves his parsonage a good distance away. (caveat: I realize that this may not be an issue in smaller towns, but in larger cities it could very well be an issue). Now maybe Methodists don't really pay much attention to their pastors with the exception of funerals, weddings, and Sunday services, I don't know. But I always had the impression that clergy had sort of a 24X7 responsibility.
So, Belle, you asked>>>>>>>
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Mark, number 1, the district supertendent makes that decision primarily with consent from the bishop in UMC, 2. clergy no longer are moved about every 5 years(been lawsuits by pastors and congregations for such meddling into the local affairs unless doctrine or morality is involved). Districts are like deaniries in RC(sometimes called convocations) with charges being congregations in each county/city. Suggest you buy Handbook on denominations in US, 12th edition from Abingdon Press(Cokesbury in Nashville).
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I, also, think it's a refreshing change from the way TWI keeps TWIts in the dark like mushrooms. They won't even answer questions when you ask about things. Their definition of keeping their people informed "from soup to nuts" is definitely different from the rest of the world's.
This church has so much transparency that it's a major adjustment for me. They print the budget in the weekly newsletter they provide. It tells how many people were at church last week and how that compares to a year ago. They tell how much money they received and how that compares to a year ago, as well as how that affects the budget - e.g. if there is a surplus or deficit and how much.
They have committees made up of volunteers to assess and investigate issues and decisions as they come up and the committee provides the information for the rest of the church and, as you see in the letter, there is an open meeting for all congregants to come listen, share their views, etc. and vote.
I don't know much about the Methodist religion being raised Southern Baptist, but I do so like the church, the sermons, the many things they do in the community, with other churches and on their own. Everyone is so kind and it seems to be a genuine kindness, not the fake syrupy sweet saccharine kindness of TWI.
I've been able to share and ask questions (sometimes hard questions) without offending people. If I seem to disagree with something they say, then I'm allowed to share that too - and I have, but not in an offensive way and not in a way that derails or detracts from the meeting. I'm still welcome and still treated just as nicely as everyone else is. :) We discuss things - what a concept! Sometimes I change my mind or we just move on.
They have a website that's state of the art, imo, and shockingly so since it is a pretty small church. The sermons are e-mailed to me each week and I can watch the sermon from the previous services on the web by Monday morning.
They just do so many things right! It's exciting to me and the doctrinal issues are so minor and since I'm re-evaluating everything anyway, it's not a big deal. *shrug* The love of God is there and very evident. People are truly happy, blessed, free and living the more abudant life better than I ever saw in TWI.
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I love you Belle!
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Awww, shucks.....thanks, Themex. I think you're pretty cool yerself. :)
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Thanks Belle........I always read your posts. :)
What a "night & day" difference than how veepee structured things. The damage done continues from generation to generation......until someone with some business smarts and ethical protocols takes the helm. I'm not holding my breath, though.
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I love how the United Methodists operate!!!!
Another big difference between the UMC and twi is the UMC's slogan: Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors.
The UMC means it!
Oh! Another difference between the UMC and twi is the UMC shows 'the love of God'...and doesn't just give it lip service on the behind of leadershi+ like in twi. Outside of Catholic Charities/Catholic Social Services, the UMC does more for the communities in which their churches are located than twi has ever done for anybody.
Can you tell I love the UMC? :D
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One thing I'll say, I've met a lot of Methodist pastors throughout the years. 99% are really nice, caring folks. That's a lot more than I can say for other religious entities.
Glad you are finding something that works for you.
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Thanks, Mark. :)
I'm really surprised that I'm still going, since, as a lot of former wayfers I'm sure, I went in looking for a reason to quit going. <_< I still haven't found one.
The ministers ARE real. They share their foibles, idiosyncracies and everyday challenges that so many of us can relate to. They laugh, they have fun, they're just real live down to earth people who love God and His people. They love what they do and it shows.
edited to add: I can't recall standing when they enter a room, either. ;)
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The Lutheran Church I have been checking out recently has congregational members vote on important decisions as well. Works for me even tho I am not a member and don't vote. They also have several discussion meetings regarding the upcoming vote before it is taken. Plenty of time for everyone to get all the facts and mull it over. Not every member is required to vote either. Only if they want to. Also works for me after seeing twi mandate stuff for people.
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