Now there are things like my Social Secrety number that is not wise to share but I all so see no reason it would come up in a post and if it did
I have no need to hide it from just people but just people have no need for it
You see just people do not care about things like that Just like your home address I have no need for it but what I am talking do not hide it out of fear but not giving it because there no need is not fear
About kids you should get to know people before you let them email or talk with them that is smart
But that not hiding things I am sure you have some friends here that you have gave Email your address to but you took time to know them first
I talking about things we hide from kids or friends because we feel they are wrong or fear to give our real name
That does not mean you have to give them your address but why hide things unless you are afraid of others knowing
I give out my address to all but some just give it to a few after getting to know them neither me or the one who gives it after they feel they can trust another person is hiding their address
Some just only give it if their value to giving
There are some differance but what I talking about things we do not want others to know because we are not happy about us doing that or having that a fear
Being smart is not a fear it just the right thing to do Just like teach your kids that there are bad people out there
How you teach them is your bunisses
I hope you understand I just used address for explans like the story I wrote
You see I had a fear of giving it out but my fears are not the same as yours
Well roy, I think that your writings on this thread are contradictory.
My life is an open book...if I don't share its because its none of anyones dam business. If I don't share it is not because I'm trying to hide from anyone.
What shell said is very correct. We really don't know people here and your opening yourself up to trouble.
I not trying to sound contradictory but there is a line between hiding and just not telling because of no need for others find out somthing about us
Now you and Sherry have open your life to others just not all and all I see no need of
Maybe my wording is not best but I do not want people address or etc I have no need of them
But what each person hides is differ I once hide I was fat but not any longer I do not give my mother madin Name in my story because it a not smart thing to do or need
Everybody hides things in their life I just try to get others to think
are you hiding it out of fear or just there no need for others to know
For most people is past feelings, past history of life, drinking, etc
I still hide things in my life but not from close friends or family
If you and others to not give your address because of no need but if you hide it from love ones that would be wrong
I just trying to not meantion the things that we hide but lets go there
1 Some hide movies they watch
2 some hide their past
3 some hide drinking problems (now drinking is not wrong so why hide it)
4 some hide their fears
Just trying to get others to think about what they hide out of fear -v- what they do not tell because no need
and hope they stop hiding things out of fear and at the same times not tell things not needed
You see if you control who talks to your kids you are not afraid of bad things happen to your kids by those people
You see their trust in few friends not fear and since you keep the strangers far there no fear
You see I do not understand everything but I know God said everything hide will be know but what is hide and what is no need to know
I needed to give my address bacause I hide from the world itself for many years
I still have problem of giving doctors my phone number so I just tell them to mail things to me
And for a Emercy person number I give them 911 and they do not like that but I have fears to overcome too
I hope this help but if not maybe we can delete this tread if it hurts others because I do not want to put anyone in a box
BOUNDRIES,BOUNDRIES AND MORE BOUNDRIES! Buddy you need boundries to keep other peoples stuff at bay and to keep your stuff contained.
EX. You get up set with a store clerk for ignoring you when you asked where the Cheetos are. So now your angry and you take it out on the casheir as you check out with your Cheetos.
Keeping your self contained is making sure your emotions are not displaced on another.
Now let say...That store clerk ignored you because his hearing aid is turned down to low.
Is his ignoring you about you? NO! So possible you can put up boundries and think..,What ever his problem is...It is not about me and ask someone else for where the Cheetos are.
Boundries are vital and without them it opens you up to be victumized or be the offender.
I think the Law and Commandments of God/Jesus are the measuring stick here...If you are sleeping with your sister's husband, or your best friends' wife, you probably dont want anyone to know. How about stealing from your job?
Lying on your best friend...do you want something bad to happen to that guy down the street because he just got his kitchen remodeled, backyard landscaped or Dayyam!!!His wife is fine?
Sexually perverse? Like to eat living things?
Dabbling in the Masons or Santaria?
I would hide that sh%*t, wouldn't you?
Father knows Best...Father knows, cause He had the Book written.
Why don't you tell everyone about your personal sex life. Give the details. Include your fantasies. No need to keep that hidden from the kids or your friends.
Rollos-- when I don't want to share. Feel a little guilty about that!
Books in my bedroom--not exactly hidden but Off Limits to my bookworm kid due to adult content. Or due to the sheer amount of $$ I have sunk into some of them. Also, some videos, dvd's. Outa site outa mind. No guilt there, mom decision.
At work, I 'hide' my Wiccan beliefs--in the broomcloset, heehee--but I have no guilt about that. It is a secular workplace, and no one's business. Plus I work daily with two very conservative Christians and I suspect they would have issues. Why start a drama?
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Shellon
I believe their is no excuse to hide things from others
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Are you serious???
Why is 'hiding' my personal information an excuse?
Keeping my life private, protecting my privacy, my children and my home private is never an excuse. It's dam smart.
Surely you've heard of stalkers, rapists, home invaders, who get their information anywhere they can get it.
You want the numbers of all my bank accounts too?
Where do you get this stuff?
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Hi Shellon
Now there are things like my Social Secrety number that is not wise to share but I all so see no reason it would come up in a post and if it did
I have no need to hide it from just people but just people have no need for it
You see just people do not care about things like that Just like your home address I have no need for it but what I am talking do not hide it out of fear but not giving it because there no need is not fear
About kids you should get to know people before you let them email or talk with them that is smart
But that not hiding things I am sure you have some friends here that you have gave Email your address to but you took time to know them first
I talking about things we hide from kids or friends because we feel they are wrong or fear to give our real name
That does not mean you have to give them your address but why hide things unless you are afraid of others knowing
I give out my address to all but some just give it to a few after getting to know them neither me or the one who gives it after they feel they can trust another person is hiding their address
Some just only give it if their value to giving
There are some differance but what I talking about things we do not want others to know because we are not happy about us doing that or having that a fear
Being smart is not a fear it just the right thing to do Just like teach your kids that there are bad people out there
How you teach them is your bunisses
I hope you understand I just used address for explans like the story I wrote
You see I had a fear of giving it out but my fears are not the same as yours
Just like my needs are not same as yours
with love Roy
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Shellon
but why hide things unless you are afraid of others knowing
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Dam right I'm afraid. Afraid that some pedophile would show up at my door, peek in the windows at my kid, etc etc etc.
Sigh, never mind, Roy. Do whatcha want. Post directions to your home, tell where the key is hidden, and where you keep your valuable.
My opinion is that it's a bad idea, and I'd hate to encourage anyone to give out information just cuz someone else says we should not fear.
Been there, done that, got fuked, no thanks.
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Well roy, I think that your writings on this thread are contradictory.
My life is an open book...if I don't share its because its none of anyones dam business. If I don't share it is not because I'm trying to hide from anyone.
What shell said is very correct. We really don't know people here and your opening yourself up to trouble.
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Hi Vickles
I not trying to sound contradictory but there is a line between hiding and just not telling because of no need for others find out somthing about us
Now you and Sherry have open your life to others just not all and all I see no need of
Maybe my wording is not best but I do not want people address or etc I have no need of them
But what each person hides is differ I once hide I was fat but not any longer I do not give my mother madin Name in my story because it a not smart thing to do or need
Everybody hides things in their life I just try to get others to think
are you hiding it out of fear or just there no need for others to know
For most people is past feelings, past history of life, drinking, etc
I still hide things in my life but not from close friends or family
If you and others to not give your address because of no need but if you hide it from love ones that would be wrong
I just trying to not meantion the things that we hide but lets go there
1 Some hide movies they watch
2 some hide their past
3 some hide drinking problems (now drinking is not wrong so why hide it)
4 some hide their fears
Just trying to get others to think about what they hide out of fear -v- what they do not tell because no need
and hope they stop hiding things out of fear and at the same times not tell things not needed
You see if you control who talks to your kids you are not afraid of bad things happen to your kids by those people
You see their trust in few friends not fear and since you keep the strangers far there no fear
You see I do not understand everything but I know God said everything hide will be know but what is hide and what is no need to know
I needed to give my address bacause I hide from the world itself for many years
I still have problem of giving doctors my phone number so I just tell them to mail things to me
And for a Emercy person number I give them 911 and they do not like that but I have fears to overcome too
I hope this help but if not maybe we can delete this tread if it hurts others because I do not want to put anyone in a box
with Love Roy
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Tom Strange
I hide my cookies so you won't find them.
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George Aar
The only thing I could think of is:
What's it to ya?
('course, then, I would)
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TheManOfa Thousand ScreenNames
Why do you need/want to know?
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GarthP2000
Don't mind Roy. folks. He's just going through a Momentus moment.
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herbiejuan
I used to hide easter eggs does that count?
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dmiller
I used to hide my thoughts. Did such a good job, I don't know where they are, and can't collect them.
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TheInvisibleDan
What do I hide?
Bodies buried in my backyard....
(oooooo-weeeeeee-ooooooo....)
of termites and ants, that is....
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ROY,
BOUNDRIES,BOUNDRIES AND MORE BOUNDRIES! Buddy you need boundries to keep other peoples stuff at bay and to keep your stuff contained.
EX. You get up set with a store clerk for ignoring you when you asked where the Cheetos are. So now your angry and you take it out on the casheir as you check out with your Cheetos.
Keeping your self contained is making sure your emotions are not displaced on another.
Now let say...That store clerk ignored you because his hearing aid is turned down to low.
Is his ignoring you about you? NO! So possible you can put up boundries and think..,What ever his problem is...It is not about me and ask someone else for where the Cheetos are.
Boundries are vital and without them it opens you up to be victumized or be the offender.
Think about it.
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Goey
Roy,
If I told you what I hide in my life, then it would no longer be hidden.
Goey
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Rachel
Hi Gang...
I think the Law and Commandments of God/Jesus are the measuring stick here...If you are sleeping with your sister's husband, or your best friends' wife, you probably dont want anyone to know. How about stealing from your job?
Lying on your best friend...do you want something bad to happen to that guy down the street because he just got his kitchen remodeled, backyard landscaped or Dayyam!!!His wife is fine?
Sexually perverse? Like to eat living things?
Dabbling in the Masons or Santaria?
I would hide that sh%*t, wouldn't you?
Father knows Best...Father knows, cause He had the Book written.
Rachel
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Goey
Ok Roy,
Why don't you tell everyone about your personal sex life. Give the details. Include your fantasies. No need to keep that hidden from the kids or your friends.
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johniam
I may not be able to hide anything from God, but I'll gladly hide stuff from people.
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Bramble
Hmm, things I hide. . .
My identity on the internet.
Rollos-- when I don't want to share. Feel a little guilty about that!
Books in my bedroom--not exactly hidden but Off Limits to my bookworm kid due to adult content. Or due to the sheer amount of $$ I have sunk into some of them. Also, some videos, dvd's. Outa site outa mind. No guilt there, mom decision.
At work, I 'hide' my Wiccan beliefs--in the broomcloset, heehee--but I have no guilt about that. It is a secular workplace, and no one's business. Plus I work daily with two very conservative Christians and I suspect they would have issues. Why start a drama?
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