(SNIP)...After another five minutes of chit chat, I told them that one of the reasons why few open their doors around here was because of dominant solicitation from sales people AND Jehovah Witnesses who target this area. With that.......she admitted to me that they were, indeed, JW. See.....they were using "a backdoor witnessing technique" [deception] to gain access to bring others into the JW-cult. And, then....I told her that I, too, had knocked on doors for years trying to help people to better understand scripture....adding another five minutes of background and detail. They were really nice people, late-20s, and I couldn't leave them without WARNING them about cult manipulation. Long story short.....I gave a short overview of the scientology tv-documentary, then my experiences and why I walked away........and cults worldwide. There are better ways to serve Jehovah.....than doing this grueling coercion of door-knocking. I told them to think long and hard......their life's passions should not be dictated by JW-hierarchy....(SNIP)
Excellent counsel, Skyrider! Good countermeasures to any stranglehold are the ability to think and the courage to choose one’s own response. I have to mention one of my favorite quotes regarding tyranny:
Freedom of the mind requires not only, or not even specially, the absence of legal constraints but the presence of alternative thoughts. The most successful tyranny is not the one that uses force to assure uniformity but the one that removes the awareness of other possibilities….from Allan Bloom, The Closing of the American Mind
T-Bone, I love this: "Freedom of the mind requires not only, or not even specially, the absence of legal constraints but the presence of alternative thoughts."
For some alternative thoughts, some of you might like to read other folks stories about "spiritual abuse" at SAR, a new website produced by the International Cultic Studies Association. Last summer, ICSA published a mini version of my story in their magazine, ICSA Today. It is now posted on SAR.
The stories are testimonies about a variety of high-control groups. The common thread: control.
A few years ago, I was walking down the road and here come these JWS. I watched them door knocking and getting nowhere. I too paused and talked to them, told them much the same as you did, Sky, but I doubt it had any impact. But who knows what seeds are sown?
I don't mind them, in fact they're sometimes genuinely helpful - and always sincere. But we know all about misguided sincerity, don't we!
I met a young JW not long ago. Not a JW in heart, just "raised in the J-Word" He participates on anti-JW websites, but the people in his life are still JWs.
I had asked him what he was a part of because his expressed frustration to others around him sounded familiar.
I took five minutes, told him situations I would guess he was probably dealing with, how people in his life were treating him, and how I thought he probably felt. Even though I have no real experience with JWs, but plenty with TWI.
For months after that he got excited every time I came around and would follow me and start telling me about JWs. He began speaking up more openly and positively to everyone around him what he was experiencing. I then heard other people start talking about abusive organizations and relationships and how they work.
He was a cool character, fighting to go to school in spite of an organization that dictates aspects of his life. I hope he is doing well.
A few years ago, I was walking down the road and here come these JWS. I watched them door knocking and getting nowhere. I too paused and talked to them, told them much the same as you did, Sky, but I doubt it had any impact. But who knows what seeds are sown?
I don't mind them, in fact they're sometimes genuinely helpful - and always sincere. But we know all about misguided sincerity, don't we!
Twinky, they can be nice people, but I am not interested in anything they have to say about anything. I want to pursue God in my own way.
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Excellent counsel, Skyrider! Good countermeasures to any stranglehold are the ability to think and the courage to choose one’s own response. I have to mention one of my favorite quotes regarding tyranny:
Freedom of the mind requires not only, or not even specially, the absence of legal constraints but the presence of alternative thoughts. The most successful tyranny is not the one that uses force to assure uniformity but the one that removes the awareness of other possibilities….from Allan Bloom, The Closing of the American Mind
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T-Bone, I love this: "Freedom of the mind requires not only, or not even specially, the absence of legal constraints but the presence of alternative thoughts."
For some alternative thoughts, some of you might like to read other folks stories about "spiritual abuse" at SAR, a new website produced by the International Cultic Studies Association. Last summer, ICSA published a mini version of my story in their magazine, ICSA Today. It is now posted on SAR.
The stories are testimonies about a variety of high-control groups. The common thread: control.
Cheers!
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A few years ago, I was walking down the road and here come these JWS. I watched them door knocking and getting nowhere. I too paused and talked to them, told them much the same as you did, Sky, but I doubt it had any impact. But who knows what seeds are sown?
I don't mind them, in fact they're sometimes genuinely helpful - and always sincere. But we know all about misguided sincerity, don't we!
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I met a young JW not long ago. Not a JW in heart, just "raised in the J-Word" He participates on anti-JW websites, but the people in his life are still JWs.
I had asked him what he was a part of because his expressed frustration to others around him sounded familiar.
I took five minutes, told him situations I would guess he was probably dealing with, how people in his life were treating him, and how I thought he probably felt. Even though I have no real experience with JWs, but plenty with TWI.
For months after that he got excited every time I came around and would follow me and start telling me about JWs. He began speaking up more openly and positively to everyone around him what he was experiencing. I then heard other people start talking about abusive organizations and relationships and how they work.
He was a cool character, fighting to go to school in spite of an organization that dictates aspects of his life. I hope he is doing well.
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BOOOM!! Right on Skyrider
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Twinky, they can be nice people, but I am not interested in anything they have to say about anything. I want to pursue God in my own way.
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