I don't think there is a "right" way to go about leaving them. We owe them nothing, not even an explanation. In some ways I think not giving them an explanation is a statement that a person is taking their freedom back and denying the way international authority they don't rightfully posses in the first place.
Agreed, OS. I can't think of another group one would belong to where the normal response to leaving would simply to wish one well. I guess I'm too far removed from absolutist authoritarian group think.
I guess this post was also largely about explaining it to others like close friends and family. Regardless, for me, this was the best way to go.
I did the same thing, lindy. Just dropped out with no explanation. I didn't owe them one, and I really didn't think I would change anyone else's mind if I did give an explanation. All it would cause me was more pain than I already had.
In the following 24 hours I got calls from family and from the limb coordinator, all asking me to talk and to reconsider my decision.
Amazing hat anybody bothered to contact you - but then you left them. If they'd kicked you out, nobody would've contacted you.
Yep, it's all about control. Who's in control? You were! Well done.
I also didn't want them to take what I said and spin it to fit TWI's narrative on how screwed up I was, twisting my words to make them dislike me more, pity me more, or what ever.
Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth.
Yeah, that would've happened too. They would have snared you with your own words. Another way to exercize control/damage limitation.
You can be sure that if your name came up, your reputation was blackened anyway.
I'm glad for you that you can maintain a relationship with the rest of your family still in TWI.
I don't think there is a "right" way to go about leaving them. We owe them nothing, not even an explanation. In some ways I think not giving them an explanation is a statement that a person is taking their freedom back and denying the way international authority they don't rightfully posses in the first place.
I don't think there is a "right" way to go about leaving them. We owe them nothing, not even an explanation. In some ways I think not giving them an explanation is a statement that a person is taking their freedom back and denying the way international authority they don't rightfully posses in the first place.
Agree. I also don't think there is a wrong way to leave either. As long as it is on your own terms.
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I don't think there is a "right" way to go about leaving them. We owe them nothing, not even an explanation. In some ways I think not giving them an explanation is a statement that a person is taking their freedom back and denying the way international authority they don't rightfully posses in the first place.
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Agreed, OS. I can't think of another group one would belong to where the normal response to leaving would simply to wish one well. I guess I'm too far removed from absolutist authoritarian group think.
I guess this post was also largely about explaining it to others like close friends and family. Regardless, for me, this was the best way to go.
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I did the same thing, lindy. Just dropped out with no explanation. I didn't owe them one, and I really didn't think I would change anyone else's mind if I did give an explanation. All it would cause me was more pain than I already had.
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Yep, it's all about control. Who's in control? You were! Well done.
Yeah, that would've happened too. They would have snared you with your own words. Another way to exercize control/damage limitation.
You can be sure that if your name came up, your reputation was blackened anyway.
I'm glad for you that you can maintain a relationship with the rest of your family still in TWI.
It must be difficult at times. For all of you.
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Agree. I also don't think there is a wrong way to leave either. As long as it is on your own terms.
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