Since I have no idea how permissive British society had become, I have no real response to these articles. In America, we've made it almost impossible for teachers and parents to correct unruly children. I could see backlash like this happening here, too. It would be just another case of the government taking away individual freedoms to correct a problem that it caused in the first place.
I'd like to know how one is selected as one of the "worst families".
If its criminal activity, child abuse, or something similar then its along the same lines as those who must wear an ankle bracelet, report in, or take daily drug tests all of which happen here.
Incarcerated criminals are already under 24 hour CCTV surveillance here, families of addicts and criminals and others "at risk" in some cases are monitored very closely.
There is really not enough info in the article, nor am I familiar enough with intricacies of English law to formulate an opinion.
One thing I do know is that tragically a small percentage of people are just
to be anything but very bad parents.
There are no really good answers as to what should be done about that...leave them alone and watch a potential generational tragedy unfold, or intervene and traumatize a whole bunch of people.... I dont know I really dont know
If a teacher corrects a child, he gets sued. If a parent corrects a child, CPS is called. Our present laws enforce this nonsense. That kind of crap never happened when I was a child, and you know what? Kids weren't unruly (at least not to the extent we see today). So, sure, let the kids run riot, then clamp down with excessive laws.
If a parent corrects a child, CPS is called. Our present laws enforce this nonsense.
I'll take some issue with that. Even here in California where CPS is downright famous - correction is not an offense. Now if you leave a mark on the child (perhaps as in wooden spoon) then yes it is considered abuse and CPS will intervene. It does not mean that the parents lose the children, get prosecuted by the state or anything else - it means they investigate.
CPS will also get involved in cases of neglect. Suppose you have a family living like dirt - got some horses, cows, sheep, chickens - living in a house that has blown out walls and windows, kids eating food in a filthy kitchen filled with rotten old food while the livestock gets their "fair share" and while the old man and lady makes sure they have enough peso for their entertainment of choice...CPS will investigate and should investigate that neglect. Does it mean they take the kids? Nope - not even here in CA - it means that there is an investigation and possible intervention. (Hell you wanna grow up in a house like that?). Read (if you have a lot of spare time) all of the stories of children found in neglected homes in CA - starving, covered in waste, whilst the old man and old lady make sure that they still have their entertainment - meth, the internet, etc.
England LOVES their CCTV. . . long before we had traffic cams here they were handing out tickets in the mail without ever physically pulling someone over. . . . in GB you could get a picture of yourself breaking some traffic law . . . in the post. . . and were expected to pay.
The article mentions "Ministers hope the move will reduce the number of youngsters who get drawn into crime because of their chaotic family lives, as portrayed in Channel 4 comedy drama Shameless."
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We are usually a few years behind them in things like this. It will be here soon enough. . . . but, consider what some of these inner city council flats are like. You would NOT walk in there unarmed and would certainly not take your kids.
Who is watching out for these kids? The local Councils? It appears it is just getting worse.
If a teacher corrects a child, he gets sued. If a parent corrects a child, CPS is called. Our present laws enforce this nonsense. That kind of crap never happened when I was a child, and you know what? Kids weren't unruly (at least not to the extent we see today). So, sure, let the kids run riot, then clamp down with excessive laws.
George
Your argument is grossly overstated IMO. I suppose it depends on how one defines "corrects a child" however. For that matter, I disagree with your claim that kids are more unruly today then we were, and I lived my whole childhood on various army posts.
I wonder if there is some hormone thing that kicks in for some people at a certain age whereby they get older and start to complain about the next generation. I think my grandpa had that condition, and my dad to a lesser degree. Mom never succombed to it, and fortunately it seems to have skipped me.
teachers AND parents correct children every day, without being abusive or sued.
There have always been troublemakers in school, but when I was growing up, they usually got straightened out pretty quickly. Of course, I spent several years in Catholic schools. But even at the pulic high school I attended, children were respectful. If a teacher had to discipline you (in ANY way), your parents ALSO disciplined you.
Frankly, I think the only recourse teachers have these days (and I haven't heard about anyone trying it, but it makes sense to me) would be to sue the parents of unruly children, saying that the children provide a hostile work environment. Better a pre-emptive strike like that than to have some parent sue because the teacher sent the kid to detention and "lowered his self-esteem." <_<
Frankly, I think the only recourse teachers have these days (and I haven't heard about anyone trying it, but it makes sense to me) would be to sue the parents of unruly children, saying that the children provide a hostile work environment. Better a pre-emptive strike like that than to have some parent sue because the teacher sent the kid to detention and "lowered his self-esteem." <_<
I think Wisconsin tried something like that with attendance not discipline issues. Parents with chronically absent children were somehow fined/sued/neutered - I can't quite remember and certainly can't remember how successful it was.
Don't give them any other GREAT ideas...George....they caused the problem to begin with and now they'll get paid for it???? OMG!
There have always been troublemakers in school, but when I was growing up, they usually got straightened out pretty quickly. Of course, I spent several years in Catholic schools. But even at the pulic high school I attended, children were respectful. If a teacher had to discipline you (in ANY way), your parents ALSO disciplined you.
Frankly, I think the only recourse teachers have these days (and I haven't heard about anyone trying it, but it makes sense to me) would be to sue the parents of unruly children, saying that the children provide a hostile work environment. Better a pre-emptive strike like that than to have some parent sue because the teacher sent the kid to detention and "lowered his self-esteem." <_<
The government caused the problem by changing teaching standards so that students pupils are no longer required to learn anything. They have to be passed regardless of achievement, because God forbid we should hurt their feelings. States, like Texas, with so-called achievement tests, continually dumb them down, and then the teachers only prep kids for those tests. (I'm generalizing here, of course; there ARE teachers who try to instill a love for learning, but the political deck is stacked against them.) The courts (which are part of the government) encourage this behavior. I haven't read the "College grad sues school" thread, but it doesn't surprise me in the least.
As for suing the parents of unruly kids, it's not what I would really like to see. But if people are no longer afraid of parents and teachers, at least they're still afraid of LAWYERS!
I dunno.. seems back in "the day" unless one enjoyed the whack in the rear.. the "bad element" learned to be bad, more discretely. Just my impression here..
one generally had a close knit group where one could buy dope..
now its sold right out on the streets. Why? well..I think with lower standards, the sellers and users are still there.. but they just don't have a real need to hide..
we are educating dumbed down dealers and drug addicts..
now in Britain, it looks like they are just harvesting them..
The government caused the problem by changing teaching standards so that students pupils are no longer required to learn anything. They have to be passed regardless of achievement, because God forbid we should hurt their feelings. States, like Texas, with so-called achievement tests, continually dumb them down, and then the teachers only prep kids for those tests. (I'm generalizing here, of course; there ARE teachers who try to instill a love for learning, but the political deck is stacked against them.) . . .
George
One year a group of us went through three years of math books. For the following 2-3 years we redid those same math books. What was the point of that? What do you think we did with all that "free time"?
i disagree with you George, but then I am not there in TX. I have not seen our curriculums here in CO "dumbed down", and I know there is no requirement to pass a kid on to the next level in my school district. We view the students here as LEARNERS rather than boxes to be stuffed with meaningless data dumps. It works well for us.
Here, many of the changes in curriculum have been driven by the business community, who want their future employees to be able to think problems through to a resolution, and to work with other employees to get the job done. These changes are in addition to the regular strong math, english and science standards.
Can you point me to more than a couple of isolated stories about parent's suing for their kid's self esteem being hurt by a teacher? You speak as though it is a common practice. I have not heard of much of that anywhere, and none in CO. Is that a way of life in the courts for people in TX or something?
For the record, I am quite pleased with the education my boys got in their public school years here. I do not think they were a peculiarity. I know many many many wonderful young people who are able to think, solve problems, write well, and participate in and effect change in their community. I thoroughly enjoy spending time with them, working with them, and sitting around talking with them. I am sorry you do not seem to have the same joy of doing that which I do.
it isn't so much.. "let's not pick on the poor kids self esteem".
It's more like.. how can we build a positive self esteem.
So many studies seem to prove kids will perform as well as we can tell them they can.
Give me a few months or years of real experience.. and maybe I can say more..
:)
Tutoring.. I can tell the difference. I've told people they are as smart as anyone else, they have the capacity to learn.. and it really is true. The same portion of the brain that can do language also does math. Is one "wired" to be able to understand math? Yes.
Doesn't make everything wonderful and easy though..
it isn't so much.. "let's not pick on the poor kids self esteem".
It's more like.. how can we build a positive self esteem.
So many studies seem to prove kids will perform as well as we can tell them they can.
Give me a few months or years of real experience.. and maybe I can say more..
Tutoring.. I can tell the difference. I've told people they are as smart as anyone else, they have the capacity to learn.. and it really is true. The same portion of the brain that can do language also does math. Is one "wired" to be able to understand math? Yes.
Doesn't make everything wonderful and easy though..
well said Ham, I don't disagree with any of that. I simply add that in my view, the goal of building positive self esteem is to enhance learning.
The government caused the problem by changing teaching standards so that students pupils are no longer required to learn anything. They have to be passed regardless of achievement, because God forbid we should hurt their feelings.
. . .
This is a true statement. Except, if the government didn't cause it, then culture did. Either way, it's what the people want.
Remember the days of the Truancy Officer? Back in my day boys carried pocket knives and duked it out in the play ground. If you got in trouble at school you got in trouble at home.
Now, mamas hot foot it to school and want to know what you did to make her baby mad that made him/her misbehave. That is, the parents who care enough to show up or are available.
The breakdown of the family unit is the greatest contributing factor for the pathetic state of our education system.
Now, mamas hot foot it to school and want to know what you did to make her baby mad that made him/her misbehave. That is, the parents who care enough to show up or are available.
Uhhh - not by my experience in raising two kids. Every parent I know attends PTC's, other school functions, and is involved in school...as in every one I know...and if the kids got in some yogurt the parents were'nt all calling their attorneys. While I certainly cannot disagree with you that it does happen, and perhaps may happen a lot, it is not ubiquitous.
My wife has done a lot of substitute teaching. She began working on her certification to teach full-time, but the liberal bias of the curriculum made her cringe. She's now happy to do the occasional sub jub. If you don't expect to be there tomorrow, you don't have to take a lot of crap!
George
This is a true statement. Except, if the government didn't cause it, then culture did. Either way, it's what the people want.
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Since I have no idea how permissive British society had become, I have no real response to these articles. In America, we've made it almost impossible for teachers and parents to correct unruly children. I could see backlash like this happening here, too. It would be just another case of the government taking away individual freedoms to correct a problem that it caused in the first place.
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I'd like to know how one is selected as one of the "worst families".
If its criminal activity, child abuse, or something similar then its along the same lines as those who must wear an ankle bracelet, report in, or take daily drug tests all of which happen here.
Incarcerated criminals are already under 24 hour CCTV surveillance here, families of addicts and criminals and others "at risk" in some cases are monitored very closely.
There is really not enough info in the article, nor am I familiar enough with intricacies of English law to formulate an opinion.
One thing I do know is that tragically a small percentage of people are just
There are no really good answers as to what should be done about that...leave them alone and watch a potential generational tragedy unfold, or intervene and traumatize a whole bunch of people.... I dont know I really dont know
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What's that supposed to mean?
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while you are at it, what do you mean by this too?
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If a teacher corrects a child, he gets sued. If a parent corrects a child, CPS is called. Our present laws enforce this nonsense. That kind of crap never happened when I was a child, and you know what? Kids weren't unruly (at least not to the extent we see today). So, sure, let the kids run riot, then clamp down with excessive laws.
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I'll take some issue with that. Even here in California where CPS is downright famous - correction is not an offense. Now if you leave a mark on the child (perhaps as in wooden spoon) then yes it is considered abuse and CPS will intervene. It does not mean that the parents lose the children, get prosecuted by the state or anything else - it means they investigate.
CPS will also get involved in cases of neglect. Suppose you have a family living like dirt - got some horses, cows, sheep, chickens - living in a house that has blown out walls and windows, kids eating food in a filthy kitchen filled with rotten old food while the livestock gets their "fair share" and while the old man and lady makes sure they have enough peso for their entertainment of choice...CPS will investigate and should investigate that neglect. Does it mean they take the kids? Nope - not even here in CA - it means that there is an investigation and possible intervention. (Hell you wanna grow up in a house like that?). Read (if you have a lot of spare time) all of the stories of children found in neglected homes in CA - starving, covered in waste, whilst the old man and old lady make sure that they still have their entertainment - meth, the internet, etc.
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England LOVES their CCTV. . . long before we had traffic cams here they were handing out tickets in the mail without ever physically pulling someone over. . . . in GB you could get a picture of yourself breaking some traffic law . . . in the post. . . and were expected to pay.
The article mentions "Ministers hope the move will reduce the number of youngsters who get drawn into crime because of their chaotic family lives, as portrayed in Channel 4 comedy drama Shameless."
We are usually a few years behind them in things like this. It will be here soon enough. . . . but, consider what some of these inner city council flats are like. You would NOT walk in there unarmed and would certainly not take your kids.
Who is watching out for these kids? The local Councils? It appears it is just getting worse.
Remember the riots in Paris?
Maybe they have just stood up and took notice.
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Your argument is grossly overstated IMO. I suppose it depends on how one defines "corrects a child" however. For that matter, I disagree with your claim that kids are more unruly today then we were, and I lived my whole childhood on various army posts.
I wonder if there is some hormone thing that kicks in for some people at a certain age whereby they get older and start to complain about the next generation. I think my grandpa had that condition, and my dad to a lesser degree. Mom never succombed to it, and fortunately it seems to have skipped me.
teachers AND parents correct children every day, without being abusive or sued.
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You didn't go to my Junior High or High School..
I saw stuff that would make one's head spin..
and we were in a relatively "civilized" area at that..
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There have always been troublemakers in school, but when I was growing up, they usually got straightened out pretty quickly. Of course, I spent several years in Catholic schools. But even at the pulic high school I attended, children were respectful. If a teacher had to discipline you (in ANY way), your parents ALSO disciplined you.
Frankly, I think the only recourse teachers have these days (and I haven't heard about anyone trying it, but it makes sense to me) would be to sue the parents of unruly children, saying that the children provide a hostile work environment. Better a pre-emptive strike like that than to have some parent sue because the teacher sent the kid to detention and "lowered his self-esteem." <_<
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They could toughen the cirriculum. You know, give kids something to do while they are at school. Might change the behavior a little.
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I think Wisconsin tried something like that with attendance not discipline issues. Parents with chronically absent children were somehow fined/sued/neutered - I can't quite remember and certainly can't remember how successful it was.
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Don't give them any other GREAT ideas...George....they caused the problem to begin with and now they'll get paid for it???? OMG!
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Just how did the Government cause the problem?
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The government caused the problem by changing teaching standards so that students pupils are no longer required to learn anything. They have to be passed regardless of achievement, because God forbid we should hurt their feelings. States, like Texas, with so-called achievement tests, continually dumb them down, and then the teachers only prep kids for those tests. (I'm generalizing here, of course; there ARE teachers who try to instill a love for learning, but the political deck is stacked against them.) The courts (which are part of the government) encourage this behavior. I haven't read the "College grad sues school" thread, but it doesn't surprise me in the least.
As for suing the parents of unruly kids, it's not what I would really like to see. But if people are no longer afraid of parents and teachers, at least they're still afraid of LAWYERS!
George
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I dunno.. seems back in "the day" unless one enjoyed the whack in the rear.. the "bad element" learned to be bad, more discretely. Just my impression here..
one generally had a close knit group where one could buy dope..
now its sold right out on the streets. Why? well..I think with lower standards, the sellers and users are still there.. but they just don't have a real need to hide..
we are educating dumbed down dealers and drug addicts..
now in Britain, it looks like they are just harvesting them..
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One year a group of us went through three years of math books. For the following 2-3 years we redid those same math books. What was the point of that? What do you think we did with all that "free time"?
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i disagree with you George, but then I am not there in TX. I have not seen our curriculums here in CO "dumbed down", and I know there is no requirement to pass a kid on to the next level in my school district. We view the students here as LEARNERS rather than boxes to be stuffed with meaningless data dumps. It works well for us.
Here, many of the changes in curriculum have been driven by the business community, who want their future employees to be able to think problems through to a resolution, and to work with other employees to get the job done. These changes are in addition to the regular strong math, english and science standards.
Can you point me to more than a couple of isolated stories about parent's suing for their kid's self esteem being hurt by a teacher? You speak as though it is a common practice. I have not heard of much of that anywhere, and none in CO. Is that a way of life in the courts for people in TX or something?
For the record, I am quite pleased with the education my boys got in their public school years here. I do not think they were a peculiarity. I know many many many wonderful young people who are able to think, solve problems, write well, and participate in and effect change in their community. I thoroughly enjoy spending time with them, working with them, and sitting around talking with them. I am sorry you do not seem to have the same joy of doing that which I do.
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After one week of assistantship training..
it isn't so much.. "let's not pick on the poor kids self esteem".
It's more like.. how can we build a positive self esteem.
So many studies seem to prove kids will perform as well as we can tell them they can.
Give me a few months or years of real experience.. and maybe I can say more..
:)
Tutoring.. I can tell the difference. I've told people they are as smart as anyone else, they have the capacity to learn.. and it really is true. The same portion of the brain that can do language also does math. Is one "wired" to be able to understand math? Yes.
Doesn't make everything wonderful and easy though..
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well said Ham, I don't disagree with any of that. I simply add that in my view, the goal of building positive self esteem is to enhance learning.
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This is a true statement. Except, if the government didn't cause it, then culture did. Either way, it's what the people want.
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Remember the days of the Truancy Officer? Back in my day boys carried pocket knives and duked it out in the play ground. If you got in trouble at school you got in trouble at home.
Now, mamas hot foot it to school and want to know what you did to make her baby mad that made him/her misbehave. That is, the parents who care enough to show up or are available.
The breakdown of the family unit is the greatest contributing factor for the pathetic state of our education system.
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Uhhh - not by my experience in raising two kids. Every parent I know attends PTC's, other school functions, and is involved in school...as in every one I know...and if the kids got in some yogurt the parents were'nt all calling their attorneys. While I certainly cannot disagree with you that it does happen, and perhaps may happen a lot, it is not ubiquitous.
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My wife has done a lot of substitute teaching. She began working on her certification to teach full-time, but the liberal bias of the curriculum made her cringe. She's now happy to do the occasional sub jub. If you don't expect to be there tomorrow, you don't have to take a lot of crap!
George
More likely, it's what the NEA wants.
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