At a statewide TC meeting in the mid 90s, I was instructed to keep the single women "from seeking sexual needs from men outside the purity of the household," wink, wink.
And to teach my fellow single men to do the same thing.
A memory telling of many things.
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Now, consider VPW's admonition that it was the unbelieving women who TWI-men were to slake their lusts upon, and you see that LCM must have been just an incredibly greedy bastard. So, men can sleep with unbelievers to get their rocks off, and have to take care of the Holy Sexual Needs™ of the believer women, while the TWI-women could only go to the TWI-men. Huh? "Eternal vagina fix", indeed.
To recap:
TWI-men can only sleep with two categories of women:
1) those who are unbelievers.
2) those who are believers.
(For purposes of argument, all those women who are uncertain or agnostics count in category 1.)
TWI-women:
Bend over and take it with a smile, but only from an Offical TWI-Man.
Hope that clears up any confusion. Thank you.
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quote:The implication of your post, if I'm reading it right, is "Hey, Naomi got over it, so why can't everyone else?" Easy: Everyone else isn't Naomi Judd. Each of us has his/her own strengths, weaknesses, resources, pasts, challenges, ad infinitum.
Linda Z, I still think victim mentality can be overcome, if someone who engages in it desires to overcome it. That's a big point of her book and why she's overcome. That's my vote, anyway.
Yes, when you have some leisure time, go to the Barnes & Noble Self Improvement section and explore the reams of books on Self Improvement. Lot's of goodies there.
If you think you're mentally ill, consult a physician and have a medical examination.
Oh Wow Abby, He was TOLD to *Use the word* to control you*!!!
OMG is that not what the WHOLE friggin twi experience was about????
That was the only way that they could get many of us to act that way....shoot, leader was to use the word....we were required (men and women) to submit.....no matter how awfull, dangerous, or stupid we knew the actions to be...we were required to submit if we wanted remain within the will of God.
We all knew that living outside of the will of God meant destruction and death for us and our family members...
freedom of will my a--
They had it all down to a fine science.
Geeze even if your husband WANTED to be decent and resonable...he had little choice...How horrible for both of you.
[This message was edited by rascal on January 13, 2004 at 13:05.]
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excathedra
a chocolate christ with wine....
what a perfect easter communion
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and your other part of the post. yeah very sad
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Sad, yes.
A sad story ends, and we understand sadness.
But another story begins.
May we understand gladness again.
All of us.
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Ya know? It turned out pretty cool though.
I actually went home and made a list and dated all the single women in the area in the following months.
We had a lot of fun. It was Vegas.
About half of them were from my own mom's generation.
I only went as far as making out with one of them.
So, as far as I know, I pretty much failed in my "mission."
Almost all of those women have left vp's ministry.
Who knows, maybe I succeeded somehow after all?
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you succeeded and continue to succeed
so thankful you believe in a new story
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To recap:
TWI-men can only sleep with two categories of women:
1) those who are unbelievers.
2) those who are believers.
(For purposes of argument, all those women who are uncertain or agnostics count in category 1.)
TWI-women:
Bend over and take it with a smile, but only from an Offical TWI-Man.
Hope that clears up any confusion. Thank you.
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Linda Z, I still think victim mentality can be overcome, if someone who engages in it desires to overcome it. That's a big point of her book and why she's overcome. That's my vote, anyway.
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OM, do you have any inclination as to how one "gets over it"? Or what processes are needed?
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Yes, when you have some leisure time, go to the Barnes & Noble Self Improvement section and explore the reams of books on Self Improvement. Lot's of goodies there.
If you think you're mentally ill, consult a physician and have a medical examination.
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Making a wrong right...
[This message was edited by CoolWaters on January 31, 2004 at 20:45.]
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Oh Wow Abby, He was TOLD to *Use the word* to control you*!!!
OMG is that not what the WHOLE friggin twi experience was about????
That was the only way that they could get many of us to act that way....shoot, leader was to use the word....we were required (men and women) to submit.....no matter how awfull, dangerous, or stupid we knew the actions to be...we were required to submit if we wanted remain within the will of God.
We all knew that living outside of the will of God meant destruction and death for us and our family members...
freedom of will my a--
They had it all down to a fine science.
Geeze even if your husband WANTED to be decent and resonable...he had little choice...How horrible for both of you.
[This message was edited by rascal on January 13, 2004 at 13:05.]
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