I can understand your frustration at having all the attention on child molesters directed at Catholic priests. This article shows that perverts are in all religions. I hope that gives some comfort to your soul. Is it something about being a religious leader that makes them perverts? Or are perverts attracted to religious work? Another possibility is that the number of perverts in religious work is really about the same as the general population but that its the religious perverts who get all the press.
Which, if so, begs the question... does religion make someone a better person? Is there more or less murder, rape, corruption, perversion, stealing etc. in religious countries like America than in fairly non-religious countries like Sweden and Norway where church attendance is in the single digits?
I can assure you 100% that it gives no comfort to my soul that children are being abused by any trusted person, be that trusted person a relative, a minister, or a teacher.
You ask good questions about religious leaders: Is it something about being a religious leader that makes them perverts? Or are perverts attracted to religious work? Another possibility is that the number of perverts in religious work is really about the same as the general population but that its the religious perverts who get all the press.
Frankly, it's not just religious leaders. It also includes teachers. It also includes relatives. There has been a lot of press about religious leaders, I think, because it is shocking. But there has also been a lot of that going on nowadays with teachers, too. Not just male teachers with cute young teenage girls, either:
This one, in Texas, was recently caught because her teenaged student lover had seminude pics of her on his cell phone.
This young lady was busted for having a relationship with a female student (and Sunday school student, btw)
This lass, from your home state, was also busted for having a relationship with a young girl.
Oh, by the way, all of those stories wre from the past month. (Trust me, there are plenty more where those three came from)
So, while it is undoubtedly a problem with religious leaders, the scope of it goes far beyond just religious leaders. The scope goes as far as to people in trust positions, whatever that position is.
Personally, Sudo, I think that it is a reflection on our society as a whole.
Sexual predators are just that, predators. A predator, all things being equal, chooses where he lives and works in large part based on how close prey is.
In the wild that means lions, and cheetahs follow and live around antelope herds. In the case of child molesters that means not only being around children but being ALONE around children.
A sure fire method of gaining access to children, other than your own or close family members' in a solitary situation is by entering a profession that will allow you access. Teachers, religious leaders, doctors, children activity leaders (ie Boy Scouts) all have this kind of opportunity. Couple that with the fact that most of us have a certain degree of reverence and respect for those people involved in these occupations and you have a tailor-made situation. Children are taught to respect and obey these authority figures. Most of us, even in this day and age, don't spend time in angst over whether or not our minister etc. is a child molester.
If the molester is able to gain the trust of the parents, and since this is essential to the predators success they are experts in gaining parental trust, then the likelihood that said parents will entrust their children to them is highly probable.
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Sudo
Mark,
I can understand your frustration at having all the attention on child molesters directed at Catholic priests. This article shows that perverts are in all religions. I hope that gives some comfort to your soul. Is it something about being a religious leader that makes them perverts? Or are perverts attracted to religious work? Another possibility is that the number of perverts in religious work is really about the same as the general population but that its the religious perverts who get all the press.
Which, if so, begs the question... does religion make someone a better person? Is there more or less murder, rape, corruption, perversion, stealing etc. in religious countries like America than in fairly non-religious countries like Sweden and Norway where church attendance is in the single digits?
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Sudo:
I hope that gives some comfort to your soul.
I can assure you 100% that it gives no comfort to my soul that children are being abused by any trusted person, be that trusted person a relative, a minister, or a teacher.
You ask good questions about religious leaders: Is it something about being a religious leader that makes them perverts? Or are perverts attracted to religious work? Another possibility is that the number of perverts in religious work is really about the same as the general population but that its the religious perverts who get all the press.
Frankly, it's not just religious leaders. It also includes teachers. It also includes relatives. There has been a lot of press about religious leaders, I think, because it is shocking. But there has also been a lot of that going on nowadays with teachers, too. Not just male teachers with cute young teenage girls, either:
This one, in Texas, was recently caught because her teenaged student lover had seminude pics of her on his cell phone.
This young lady was busted for having a relationship with a female student (and Sunday school student, btw)
This lass, from your home state, was also busted for having a relationship with a young girl.
Oh, by the way, all of those stories wre from the past month. (Trust me, there are plenty more where those three came from)
So, while it is undoubtedly a problem with religious leaders, the scope of it goes far beyond just religious leaders. The scope goes as far as to people in trust positions, whatever that position is.
Personally, Sudo, I think that it is a reflection on our society as a whole.
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Abigail
Interesting, Mark. It is too bad we don't know the cause and therefore the cure for this problem.
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ChattyKathy
If we could gather the real number of sexual abuse within families it would make all these religions look very small in comparison.
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templelady
Sexual predators are just that, predators. A predator, all things being equal, chooses where he lives and works in large part based on how close prey is.
In the wild that means lions, and cheetahs follow and live around antelope herds. In the case of child molesters that means not only being around children but being ALONE around children.
A sure fire method of gaining access to children, other than your own or close family members' in a solitary situation is by entering a profession that will allow you access. Teachers, religious leaders, doctors, children activity leaders (ie Boy Scouts) all have this kind of opportunity. Couple that with the fact that most of us have a certain degree of reverence and respect for those people involved in these occupations and you have a tailor-made situation. Children are taught to respect and obey these authority figures. Most of us, even in this day and age, don't spend time in angst over whether or not our minister etc. is a child molester.
If the molester is able to gain the trust of the parents, and since this is essential to the predators success they are experts in gaining parental trust, then the likelihood that said parents will entrust their children to them is highly probable.
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ChattyKathy
Good points Mo.
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