Nice to meet you. It sounds like you've been through a tough time.(understated I'm sure!)
I'm sorry for your pain. I can understand how you feel your husband alienated you.
I went through a similar ( I know it's not identical with yours) situation with my ex. He beat me with a loaded pistol because I wanted out of a 15 year marraige that wasn't working. His kids and our kids were more important than the marraige, and that's just for starters. There were other kinds of abuse. It's a long story, but everything considered, I realized my life was worth more than that. Your experience with this other group has only compounded things.....and made it very difficult to deal with.....Here's a big hug!
Your life is worth more, too. Respect is something we as humans need in order to feel loved.
Once he left, and I had my life back, things started to change....for the better.
Things will get better for you. You're not THE reason why this is all happening to you. Understood, you're dealing with alot right now, alot of loss, shock, hurt. It takes time to sort through all of that....
But, remember, you are worthy of respect. If they don't give it to you, then there's something wrong with them.
.. a ... woman, who takes care of her body and looks better than she did as a teenager!! They call that egotistical. They were probably jealous. ... Women were treated horribly.
Taking care of your body is CP3 - did your husband have you running around outside at 6 am and doing press-ups? But good on you for keeping yourself so fit and well.
It seems to me that JEALOUSY is such a big part of TWI's problem.
There is a LOT of material on GSC from both men and women documenting the lousy attitude to women. They honour with their mouths but their hearts are far from it. Every year, women seem to have got more and more put upon. Don't know if it is any better now with Rosalie at the head.
I cannot imagine what or why women should be thought so badly of. We aren't still paying for Eve's deliberate mistake are we? Let's not forget Adam's deliberate choice also to dine where he shouldn't!! I had many OT examples of poor female reliability thrown at me. Conveniently forgotten were the "good" women and the poor OT male examples.
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The actions and reactions of this CULT is down-right disturbing PinkLady~
Congratulations on caring for your body though! Whoo-hoo for you! Looking better than you did as a teenager!
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Hi Pink Lady,
Nice to meet you. It sounds like you've been through a tough time.(understated I'm sure!)
I'm sorry for your pain. I can understand how you feel your husband alienated you.
I went through a similar ( I know it's not identical with yours) situation with my ex. He beat me with a loaded pistol because I wanted out of a 15 year marraige that wasn't working. His kids and our kids were more important than the marraige, and that's just for starters. There were other kinds of abuse. It's a long story, but everything considered, I realized my life was worth more than that. Your experience with this other group has only compounded things.....and made it very difficult to deal with.....Here's a big hug!
Your life is worth more, too. Respect is something we as humans need in order to feel loved.
Once he left, and I had my life back, things started to change....for the better.
Things will get better for you. You're not THE reason why this is all happening to you. Understood, you're dealing with alot right now, alot of loss, shock, hurt. It takes time to sort through all of that....
But, remember, you are worthy of respect. If they don't give it to you, then there's something wrong with them.
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Thank you Lori. You do understand!!! I'll take that hug and give you one back!
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Taking care of your body is CP3 - did your husband have you running around outside at 6 am and doing press-ups? But good on you for keeping yourself so fit and well.
It seems to me that JEALOUSY is such a big part of TWI's problem.
There is a LOT of material on GSC from both men and women documenting the lousy attitude to women. They honour with their mouths but their hearts are far from it. Every year, women seem to have got more and more put upon. Don't know if it is any better now with Rosalie at the head.
I cannot imagine what or why women should be thought so badly of. We aren't still paying for Eve's deliberate mistake are we? Let's not forget Adam's deliberate choice also to dine where he shouldn't!! I had many OT examples of poor female reliability thrown at me. Conveniently forgotten were the "good" women and the poor OT male examples.
Jealous? Yeah!!
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