excathedra

things have always been sugar coated in my family people have "problems" priests are "mentally ill" it has done nothing but to further hurt the victim and make them realize the monster molester isn't so bad after all, just needs help, whatever i've seen much of this in my growing up years with incest and i've seen the same with catholics and of course with the way ministry and veepee it's ugly ugly ugly well my words are ugly ugly ugly when i describe their acts, huh ? my bad

oddly enough people say one thing and live another all this "teaching" doesn't mean a thing to me because i saw the behavior i should add that this is how i see it now, not back then

i'm being perfectly honest and do not mean to offend the videos made me feel sick to my stomach

well they need to be spoken of.the sexual assault of a child is often referred to as "fondling" many priests (and others) are referred to as "sick" and they send them away (too often to return to their "illness"). what if i called them "evil monsters" eh ? incest is often termed as a nonviolent crime why ? many fathers, uncles (priest, fathers in the faith / spiritual incest) "raise" or "bring their victims up" -- so violence isn't necessary at all, is it ? i was reproved here for talking about a priest.. [crude language] i was told i was a better person than that.... something along those lines.... i was also told children were reading these forums if there are children here..... hi, i'm the mom of an 11 year old boy, and i would much rather speak truth about a child being sexually assaulted by people you are brought up to trust: for example, ministers, priests, camp counselors, boy scout leaders, girls scout leaders, uncles, parents, cousins, babysitters, neighbors.... and if you're old enough to read the forums, you're old enough to understand the words i used, "good touch" and "bad touch" are for little ones

what do you think about his past life ?

john, how do you feel about a person being responsible for their own behavior ?

is there a picture of a dog on that tombstone ?

TED ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha that was HYSTERICAL moony, every time i think about the drunk just sitting in the backyard on the swing, i crack up must be a blast to be around the two of you

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

oh thought you were talking about new rules here how just plain silly of me

the woods look like trees

thank you

from john from allan

i like that one, kind of like college, when you have to write for your permanent records

i didn't know you are imbus

thanks. right now i'm severely annoyed that i couldn't do something about what i said from moderator when i asked to do such i guess 2 hours didn't do it for me, sorry for severely disrupting this thread. happy new year

i don't feel like watching the penn and teller thing, garth i'm actually not a bible believer really i'm was just a sad@(%*up

i wanted to delete / edit my post long before any of you woke up, but i couldn't due to the rules here i'm sure pawtucket and others are in their glory i've been sufficiently reproved although i already was by my own words and tried not to let any of you know that will teach me, isn't that the intent here ?

i apologize sudo and everyone else i was wrong and should have stayed away i don't think your tree or house are stupid at all, i think they are lovely bye i won't come down here and i don't want you to feel sorry for me i was not trying for self pity and that everyone would indulge me first christmas without the father and things were very emotional and weird last night within our family not offered for any reason to indulge me, just trying to explain and i don't think i can just say anything i want to and get away with it i am sorry. i should have just said i found your words to be condescending and had some excuses thrown in atheists, believers, everyone, no one, i'm sorry

haven't read geo's post yet but sudo you're a ********** just for saying thatdid you just talk about being condescending and maybe staying off here i like you a lot better when you just post your stupid christmas tree or houseif you shouldn't have posted why did you ? were you going out of your way to make me sad ? . you already did ************goodnight i'm having a hard christmas everyone sucks

you can just tell us where the less obvious is

beehive you copout i love you where have you been ? did you get dropped or loa ? mwah mwah mwah mwah

just post something naughty not nice and you will find them :) yeah and why don't you show when you're on here at the bottom ?

the annoying interruption, by the way, is my life

ok i just thought of something WHAT WORDS ? that he should love me with the love of god and heal me from past child abuse ? what in the heck do you make of THOSE WORDS ? i'm serious