okay what i'm trying to say is 
i like a lot of people 
should we talk wayfers (are they the standard ?) 
do you like dale sides 
do you like tom benner 
do you like vince finnegan 
do you like captain kangaroo ? 
i mean, what ????? 
i like a lot of people 
but are these men of god ?????   
are these friends ????? 
that's all i'm saying 
i'm not trying to put john down 
but okay how does he feel about marriage according to the bible ??? 
i mean i don't care, just asking 
since he is divorced 
and his paper like BIG DUH 
he could have written it 10-15 years before, what ?  he decided he could read the bible then ?