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please reconsider dear friend. i think this has not been the best communication thing going on seriously love you, i don't want you to go. and i don't paw or anyone does at all

ohmygod you're the one who needs to lighten up, modcow i'm in chat, why don't you join me?

anyone want to chat, like paw and modcow :)

that means i can't write back? i can post your whole post for the context but i don't feel like fighting with you

oh man, see what i mean about lightening up. i just don't get it by the way, that's amazing that you can put stuff back after it's gone i don't think that was called for paw, in my humble. don't you want people to come here? don't you want them to feel somewhat welcome or free to express themselves? i don't know. i hope you and modcow don't take me talking here as a personal attack because i surely don't mean it that way thank you

and this one sorry for hogging your thread, dot. i have a lot more lol

has anyone posted this one god i love it

Evan !!!!!! you poor thing. Love you.

i think that's really nice i didn't know you were a bigshot in your cult :)

a few nice little steps here.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HlGesF2RFIc

ps. if anyone wants to chat, let me know

Kathie, sorry about your barbies

I don't know, but David is a really good guy

i haven't read all the defs. but i think a true victimizer is someone who intentionally hurts someone, victimizes someone like, if you told that vic you didn't want to go that way, and he ignored you and of course used the bible to justify the vic timization i also think victims can be young and damaged which helps them to become victims and hopefully one day they'll grow up to be a survivor

oh thank you johnknapp! it's nice to see you here again!!!!

i love you all so much

oh, thank you rainbow and geish this particular "situation" will not get healed or better, i don't think people can do things to really hurt you, and i'm not sure..... i don't know what they're thinking, but it's okay. i learned a great lesson and i'm glad about that. i think possibly it comes down to their insecurities and that some people feel better about themselves after they've put you down but my mistake was total trust but enough of that lol thank you very much back to our regularly scheduled program

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

awesome dot and our song cher, try this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Z78ae4nsQs

oh, then go ahead and delete this

like I said, some of the moderating needs a little lightening up. modcow, i wasn't saying this because you said to cut them some slack while i appreciate the PM, i think we should be able to talk openly here ps. how do you do that carbon copy thing on PMs? is there a "reply all" button like in email?

How come you have a site, Mark? Thanks. It's the first time I realized and clicked on it.

I've seen on another forum, where people who want to chat, they just keep the thread up on top. so then when you want to talk to people, you just reply on that thread, and you can see when they said that. How 'bout it? Doable?

I have no idea. Some people like really old people might be more scared about leaving than staying in what they're familiar with, and maybe some people don't think they have anywhere to go. Well, I won't go and on, since I've never had to face this.

thank you. i just saw you post on another thread and was really touched or impressed (but i can't remember where) but thak you, again