FreeAtLast

Have a happy birthday!!

Got the cards today flaberghasted. Liked the naked man. Ooo La La.

Sorry I am a little late. Happy Birthday

Haven't been out here in a few days but didn't want to miss the Birthday of the Flaberghasted one or four. Happy Birthday to one very special person. Hope you had a relaxing and wonderful time.

Happy Birthday!!

Another week, RG. It's not been fun. I hope if I have to do this again it's a different kind of treatment.

JL you make me blush. No probs on the belated wishes it just allows me to celebrate a little longer. Sorry I have been so invisible lately gang. Steroids have messed with my head, caused me to not be able to do my school work and bomb a test because I can't think. My proffessor offered and incomplete until the meds are complete so that I don't blow what I have worked so hard to accomplish. I just may take him up on that

Welcome to the fold RainbowsChild, you have a great mom!!

Guys, Thanks so much. You all have made my day. I feel so blessed to have been able to make such wonderful online friends with so many wonderful folks. Thanks so much for all the greetings and well wishes.

Wow guys, I feel so special. Thanks RainbowsGirl great video and so perfect for me. So RainbowsChild welcome. Are you RainbowsGirl's adopted daughter?

Well thank you Suda. Beautiful pic.

Hope you had a happy birthday.

Hoppy Easter to all of you

Sorry to hear you experienced such pain in your life. Glad you found your way to deliverance. I have read some of Anothen's stuff on other sites. They guy is not here for help, he seems to be looking for something more in the lines of vidication of which I will not give. The fact that he has not even come out here to prove his remorse shows much to me. If I had been him and had read all the responses to my original post I would have tried to prove my remorse. Show my sorrow for what I have done. Nope nothing from him. What he did only caused a 9 year old slight embarassment and she is recovering nicely. At least that's how he has rationalized it in his mind. His conscience is seared with a hot iron. It will take much for this man to get deliverance, and I don't think it's available here. The guy should have been castorated. I know that's harsh, but we are talking about innocent children. Kathy did you ever consider that your friend was the perpetrator in this situation? Might be the reason for her reaction. Just a thought. Those poor children. To suffer that at the hand of a parent.`

Amen Out There. I am with you, someone that is holding such a reduced opinion of his actions is certainly not healthy. And as my experience has been these men always have the temptation. I think ignoring the guy is a good plan.

Good job DucTape. Your post managed to bring Johnny Lingo out of hiding. if for that alone you should stay. lol. I don't know you that well but hey stir it up when you need to and keep it real. We love you.

Dot I must add to your comments that again this man in this statement indicates other offenses and another key phrase to him blaming his victims. He stated sexually aggressive child. So now it's the fault of the victim because they are sexually aggressive. Usually if a child is sexually aggressive it's because they have already been sexually molested. So now what it's ok to add insult to injury and it's not your fault. Here's a clue. They are children he was an adult!!! I don't know why I keep coming back to this thread because it sickens me, but I worry this man will assault another little girl.

I will say only this John. You are a sick man with a huge problem with women. I don't know who did this to you because your wife seems like such a sweet strong lady. But I have to say I feel sorry for your wife and any daughter's you might have. I can ignore you but those poor ladies have to live with you. It's people like you that take down perfectly good threads and people like you that make others leave GSC because they don't need or want your drama. You are what you accuse these women of and you need to get a life instead of trying to fulfill you enjoyment in life by trying to stir people up in serious conversations. jean don't defend him because it won't go anywhere. He admitted to his agenda and it's not a good one.

Man, welcome hope you find this place a way of sorting through the bs. Maybe lol The marriage thing isn't uncommon. Maybe she will awaken and come around. best to you.

Kathy, he doesn't seem to have true remorse I agree. He seems to want to downplay his actions by saying the girl seems to have recovered nicely when the truth is this will plague her for the rest of her life and he should be concerned about what will come of her in adulthood and marriage. How she will view men in the future. My question is how many other instances of "crossing the line" there were, and no matter how horny he or any other person might be, we usually attend to matters through masterbation or finding someone our age that we become intimate with. But the object of our affections are naturally someone our age (roughly). Desire toward a young child is un-natural and absolutely in need of some type of counsel. I am not saying deliverance isn't available, but many don't recover. We have seen it in the Way. We saw men who are now in jail, corps grads who helped themselves to some little girl. My cousin was a repeat offender himself. When we were kids we got a known child molester in the class. We even let him stay in our home which caused my father's business to suffer because of his past. Oh but the Word delivers right? Not in his case. He was hauled off to jail for doing it again, and this man was sick enough that he would do it to little boys. My brothers were at risk and my mom was wise enough to protect them. But the guy allowed his "urges" to get the better of him. I will never trust a known child offender around my children it was once suggested that my cousin take my kids on his boat to which I quickly replied no. no matter how "strong in the Word" they present themselve I will NOT trust them. I may sound heartless but we are talking about the lives of our future, innocent little children who tend to trust an adult they know. It doesn't seem like we should just trust those that have "crossed that line" because they confess their sins. Just like the judicial system never treats them as trustworthy nor do I.

I haven't had time to read all of the posts in this thread so I may become unpopular for this. As your post was honest, it was not really necessary. I don't really understand why you wanted to tell us all about your offense, especially considering the number of women on this list that were such victims. But I am drawn to think about the fact that when I was 9 my mother's cousing ONLY FONDLED me. Now he's going to jail because he got an 8 year old to give him a blow job. Yes as a child I recovered "nicely" on the surface. I always smiled, always enjoyed my friends and mananged to function with a lower self esteem and many drawbacks in the sexual realm. It took me years to enjoy sex freely. But I was in my late 30's by that time. Don't kid yourself, she will have long term issues resulting from what you did to her and you should be concerned for her well being and possibly even pay for any counseling her insurance won't cover. That's how I fully overcame my molestation. At 39 I began seeing a counselor and now I finally feel fully recovered at 43. I don't mean to bring you down here but I don't think that in your shoes I would announce such a thing. My prayer for you is that this temptation gets under control and that you even consider counseling for yourself. God has already forgiven you, But I think you downplay the gravity of your actions.

I am with you on that one Rhino. I prefer Boxer Briefs. Ooo La La. Boxer Briefs are sexy.

Happy Birthday. Hope you have a great day!!!

No advice, but just best to you and your beau.