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I don't disagree there, Oak. They can be ticketed just like motorized vehicles, and sometimes are. In general, college towns are more bike friendly (of course there are execptions I am sure to every "rule" such as this. As I recall, you are in Lincoln? home of U of N, is that correct? Anyway, congrats on what sounds like a more bike friendly city than some. College towns also seem to have more easily accessed recycling programs. Another plus, IMO. ~HAP
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be thankful you were not in Budapest on earthday 2008- estimated 80,000 bikes in a CM event .
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bicyclists pay taxes like the rest of us do. No they don't pay gas taxes (except when they drive their cars), but then again, they do not wear out the roads the way a car does either. around here the taxes from gasoline sales help cover maintenance costs, but road construction is paid for with state income, sales and matching federal funds usually. Bicyclists pay all of those just like drivers of smelly, toxin producing heavy motor vehicles. regarding the Seattle incident, there are always two sides to the story. Here is another, with what I think is some rational thought both ways on the subject:
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Thanks for the comments. When I was younger, I was always in a hurry. Now, not so much. I am glad these thugs, hippies, attorneys, teachers, bankers, brokers etc. make me consider if the way I do things is really in my best interest. Roses smell better now that I more often take time to see them. I understand some people's disgust with the rides, although not the threats of physical assault instituted against the riders (or the drivers). I have only a minimum knowledge of them, as one of my boys has participated in them for several years, and in several countries. He also helped organize a group in a small Colorado college town. Some rides are more confrontational than others. Some are more fun than others. In most cities, CM rides are generally planned and scheduled regularly once a month, in any particular city. The large ones, and the oldest of them, are well known to the regular population, who often plan their drive times or routes around the CM rides. (San Francisco has been doing it for like 20 years or something). The smaller ones usually are just that, smaller, and therefore waiting for the bikes to pass is really not such an ordeal is it? It seems these days so many are in such a hurry to do hardly anything. Why not just relax, take a breath and wait for the bikes to pass? Ya know it will be another month before you HAVE to relax again. Regarding the blocking of intersections (known as "corking") in some riders view, it is a way to protect the riders from drivers who often try to squeeze through the line of bikes, risking hitting the riders, rather than wait a few minutes for the group to pass. Some have mentioned a concern with whether emergency vehicles are hindered in their access on emergency runs. I looked and could not find a single such incident. CM rides have many reasons for their existence, and often riders in any one event have different ideas about why they participate. Some are started to lobby for local funds for bike routes. Some are organized to call attention on an inordinate reliance on motor vehicles. Some are admittedly an "in your face" statement on the environmental issues, or healthy lifestyle issues, or.... well......the list is long. I don't know, it seems to me that in most cases threatening violence, or wishing you could, against a person making a visual statement is wrong. Perhaps one would do well to just take a breath while they wait, and consider for themselves a moment, if perhaps changing something in the way you get around now and then wouldn't be good for your health and your budget and the environment, and....just plain fun. good luck and enjoy life. Its short enough as it is. ~HAP
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Actually according to Wiki, Ned Mencia (stage name Carlos Mencia) was born in the Honduras to a Mexican mother (Magdelena Mencía) and Honduran father (Roberto Holness), the 17th of 18 children. HIs mother was in the process of a domestic dispute at the time and did not put his father's name on the birth certificate. He was raised by an aunt and uncle Consuelo and Pablo Mencia in East L.A. He went by the name Ned Holness until he was 18, (1985) according to him out of respect for his biological father. Of course that is totally separate from whether one likes his humor or not. ~HAP
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well done! thanks for sharing it with us, david
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for your viewing pleasure- I imagine some will say the scofflaw got what he deserved, others will be appauled. What is the status of civil disobedience in our country?Supposedly the following is the policeman's official report. ooooookay.....?http://freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2053787/posts
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It doesn't look good from Google. I searched for that biz name (in quotes so it would look for it just as you wrote it. No results. I googled the address and there are a number of businesses with various suite #s at that address, but none were financial companies. Google maps shows a large parking lot and several small office buildings I think. Good luck. If they ask you for some personal bank info I think it is likely a scam. Of course this is just an opinion, and I hope I am wrong. Most the time when something is "too good to be true"...... it is just that. ~HAP
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While I tend toward liberal policies when it comes to social issues I know that surprises about this many people ><, I in no way believe the act was caused by this man's hate for the church's endorsements. He, like most mass shooters, was a sick individual, end of story IMO. edit: never mind I dfidn't change anything.
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How many GSers does it take to screw in a light bulb?
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nope OKC, didn't work for you either
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you expressed it very well Excat, if THAT is misunderstood by anyone, woe unto them.
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thank you Skyrider. I think you did well, then and now. ~HAP
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Thank you to those who responded to my question. From my end, the question of whether these cases should have/COULD have been reported has been answered satisfactorily as it applies to any possible accusations against the counselors or the victims. I look forward to watching from afar unless I decide it would be beneficial to share one of the "ill-prepared" counselor stories I am personally aware of. ~HAP
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I have not seen murder to be the subject of this thread. If indeed it is a legal requirement for licensed counselors to report murder or possible murder is not an issue on this thread so why use it to infer that those who helped TWI abuse victims should have gone further and reported to authorities? I am not trying to engage you in an argument Rhino, it is never seems fruitful to the discussions and I have stated I do not wish to go back and forth with you on any of the threads, so I will NOT respond to your other questions. I am asking someone to verify what the legal requirement is to report, in the cases that ARE the subject of this thread. I will use quotes when I feel like it, whether it is getting old to you or not. Usually I hit "fast reply" so as not to clutter up the page with repeats. I did not misrepresent what you said, and I even used your escape words of REAL, and CERTAIN CASES. Previously you said 'you think', or, 'it seems', or, 'I believe' (I am not gonna go back to find out which of those 'escape' words you used), but any of them indicate the comment is your opinion which of course you are very free and adept at sharing with us. In the post I was referring to in my last post, you stated "this is even legal requirement......" - that is 'stating as fact' an argument I am not certain is true in the cases at issue on this thread. I am simply asking for ANYONE to verify this "fact". I have not been able to find verification as it applies to the cases discussed thus far on this thread by everyone, other than you (when you spoke of murder in what I think was a non-TWI case). apparently by what you wrote about googling, you have not located verification either. I am NOT saying it is not a legal requirement, I DO NOT KNOW, and am asking if one of the professionals here can verify your claim as it applies to THIS discussion since you have said it 3 times and so, 'it seems to me', apparently is a focal point of your argument that those involved should have reported these cases to authorities, even though in my opinion it is possible that doing so would have been in violation of the ethics rules of the profession and damaging to their clients' well-being. With all the respect I can muster, ~HAP
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Rhino has insinuated several times, and now recently stated as fact, that real counselors have a legal responsibility to report certain crimes to authorities. I know this is true in cases of child abuse, but have not found where that is true in cases of adult counseling, except when the client is thought to be in danger of extreme injury or is thought to be an extreme risk to themselves or others. Can anyone shed some reference to this claim of a LEGAL obligation to report (other than involving a child)? What I HAVE found thus far is that the ethics rules of the profession require that the confidence of the client to be the upmost factor, and should NEVER be risked except in those extreme risk situations. I have seen it stated in some ethics rules that the counselor should NOT do the reporting to authorites, but should attempt to enable the victim to mentally and physically be able do so themselves, ONLY if reporting the crime would be beneficial to their client's recovery. I am no authority or mental health professional by any means, but when I have helped people through crisis situations in their lives, unless the person was a risk to themselves or others, or AT severe risk of physical harm from others, I have NOT been inclined to violate their confidence by bringing legal authorites into the mix myself. For example in a rape case, would a professional be required or even expected to report if the client is not willing to do so? I generally have seen the VICTIM encouraged (strongly) to report, but not seen the case reported by a third party. Citations anyone?
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Linda- somehow I knew YOU would take my comment in the vein in which it was given, totally in jest. thanks for being you! ~HAP
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You are allowed to be totally illogical and 100% emotional! <_<
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that seems to be a common reaction Groucho
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Here is more to the story: Christian, the lion who lived in my London living room By VICTORIA MOORE Last updated at 23:24 04 May 2007 <LI class=first>Comments (6) Add to My Stories He travelled by Bentley, ate in fine London restaurants and spent his days lounging in a furniture shop. The story of Christian the pet lion - and his eventual release into the wild - is as moving as it is incredible. The furniture shop was on the King's Road in London. It sold tables, wardrobes, chairs and desks - but anybody peering through its plate-glass window on a Sunday might have noticed something rather more unusual. Amid all the pine and oak, stretched out languidly on a bench, there was a lion. And it wasn't stuffed. Scroll down for more... Tiger feet: Christian enjoyed living in swinging London "Christian used to lie beside me while I did the accounts at weekends," remembers Jennifer Mary Taylor, who worked there. "And every so often, if I'd ignored him for too long, he'd sock me across the head with one of his great big paws. "He was very loving and affectionate - he liked to stand and put his paws on your shoulders. But he was...", she pauses. "I mean, he was a lion. Does that sound silly?" Christian the lion (named by someone with a Biblical sense of humour) arrived in Chelsea at a time when the King's Road - home to Mick Jagger - was the very heart of the Swinging Sixties. For a year, the Big Cat was part of it all, cruising the streets in the back of a Bentley, popping in for lunch at Casserole, a local restaurant, even posing for a Biba fashion advert. He eventually grew too big to be kept as a pet and was taken to Kenya, where he was rehabilitated into the wild by the 'Lion Man', George Adamson. Now, his story is to be told in a new book, written by the Australian John Rendall who, along with his friend Ace Berg, bought Christian from Harrods in 1969. London pride: At home in John Rendall's Chelsea flat So what possessed them to buy a lion cub in the first place? "A friend had been to the 'exotic animals' department at Harrods and announced, rather grandly, that she wanted a camel," says Rendall. "To which the manager very coolly replied: 'One hump or two, madam?' "Ace and I thought this was the most sophisticated repartee we'd ever heard, so we went along to check it out - and there, in a small cage, was a gorgeous little lion cub. We were shocked. We looked at each other and said something's got to be done about that." Harrods, it turned out, was also quite keen to be rid of Christian, who had escaped one night, sneaked into the neighbouring carpet department - then in the throes of a sale of goatskin rugs - and wreaked havoc. The store, which had acquired the cub from Ilfracombe zoo, happily agreed to part with him for 250 guineas. So began Christian's year as an urban lion. Today, it would be unthinkable for a shop to take such a cavalier attitude towards selling exotic animals (though Harrods did, at least, provide Ace and Rendall with diet sheets). And it is hard to imagine either the animal rights lobby or any local council condoning a shop as a suitable habitat for a lion. But, back then, no one minded at all. Christian was given his own living quarters (and a very large kitty-litter tray, which he used unfailingly) in the basement of the appropriately named Sophistocat furniture shop. "He had a beautiful musky smell that was very distinct," says Rendall. "But he was clean." The vicar of the Moravian Chapel nearby was approached to allow Christian the run of the graveyard, and every day he was taken there to roar around and play football. Once, when he was brought along to a seaside picnic, he dipped his toes reluctantly in the water and intimated with a shudder that it was disagreeably cold. But he was eventually persuaded to swim in the English Channel. "He was a lot of work," says Rendall. "It took all four of us - me, my then girlfriend Jennifer Mary, Ace Berg and an actress called Unity Jones - to look after him. Cat's pyjamas: Christian, rummaging through the drawers "He also ate a lot, four meals (two liquid, two solid) plus supplements every day, which cost about £30 a week - a lot of money back then." He pauses, then adds, "And he had a very good sense of humour." Really? "Oh yes. Sometimes, he'd see people staring at him through the back window of the car, keep very still on purpose - and then, just when they were convinced he was a stuffed toy, he would very slowly turn his head and freak them out." Everyone loved Christian and he became a popular local figure. In 1970, when Chelsea beat Leeds in the FA Cup Final, Sophistocat received a call from a policeman, 'The football fans are going to be boisterous, so you'd better get your bloody lion out of the window or they'll smash it in,' he warned. Christian himself was beautifully behaved, and though he never hurt anyone, you underestimated his strength at your peril. Jennifer Mary remembers taking a friend to see him, "after I'd had one or two glasses of wine -and when he put his paws on my shoulders, one of them slipped, his claw caught my dress and he pulled the whole front of it off." He grew and grew - from 35lb when he first arrived to a rather more serious and imposing 185lb a year later - and he was beginning to acquire a mane that made him look more fearsome. He clearly could not stay with his two young owners for ever. His future was decided by a chance encounter - when the actors Bill Travers and Virginia McKenna walked into the shop to buy a pine desk. They had recently starred in the film Born Free, which tells the true story of the wildlife conservationist George Adamson and his wife Joy, who raised a lion cub called Elsa in Kenya then rehabilitated it into the wild. And they immediately suggested that Adamson might be able to help. Certainly, the conservationist was intrigued by the challenge of introducing a King's Road lion to the wilds of Africa. "But," he warned, '"ou must be prepared for this not to work. Elsa was born in Africa and she knew its smells. Taking a British-born lion, whose parents were also raised in captivity, is going to be a very different thing." Christian was flown to Kenya in a specially-made crate emblazoned with the words, 'East African Airways. London-Nairobi. Christian - male lion, 12 months'. John and Ace went with him. "I think George Adamson got quite a shock when he met us," says Rendall. "Straight from the King's Road, in all our gear - flares from Granny Takes A Trip, and with hair everywhere. "We looked rather different from everyone else in Nairobi. But then so did Christian. He'd come from winter in England, so had a very thick coat - he was almost as hairy as we were." Adamson wanted to drive straight to the Kora Reserve, close to the Tana river, where there was no human habitation. This, he felt, would be the ideal spot to build a camp. Because lions live and hunt in prides, and it is hard to impose a new male on an existing one, the plan was to introduce Christian into the wild in tandem with Boy, one of the tame beasts who had starred in Born Free. Together, they would form the nucleus of a new pride - and the whole project would be funded by a TV programme. Christian was marshalled into the back of a Land Rover, with straw on the floor and chicken-wire separating him from his friends on the front seat. It was all rather confusing for a lion accustomed to the butter-soft leather of a Bentley. And he was hot. And dusty. And confused. Not long into the journey, Rendall ventured, "Mr Adamson, he needs to go to the loo." Adamson was impatient. "We're miles from anywhere. If we stop here and he runs away, we will never, ever catch him." "Mr Adamson," promised Rendall, "that is not going to happen." The great Lion Man turned his head, sucked on his pipe and pulled over on the dirt road. Rendall opened the back of the car, and Christian jumped out to take his first real steps on African soil. To his evident disgust, it was prickly and hot. He clearly didn't like it one bit. Rendall picks up the story, "So he went tip-toeing along and went to the loo. Considerably. Then he looked around and I said, 'OK, come on, back in,' pointed back at the car - and in he jumped. "I got back in the car, too, shut the door and George Adamson turned round and said to me, 'That is quite remarkable. You may call me George.'" Kora, an area that now has National Park status, lies about 220 miles to the north-east of Nairobi. The scenery is rugged - densely packed with knotty thorn bushes, with just a narrow corridor of greenery that follows the course of the Tana river. And so Christian arrived at the camp, which Adamson's brother had built from macuti - palm fronds - chicken-wire and mud. The conservationist went off again and returned a couple of days later with Boy, the lion from Born Free. At that time, Boy was very fragile, as his shoulder had been shattered in a nasty encounter with a buffalo. But he was the first fully-grown lion that Christian had seen since leaving Ilfracombe zoo as a cub. The first meeting was explosive. Normal lion protocol dictates that the younger male should be subservient to the dominant male. But Christian, more schooled in Sloane than feline etiquette, sashayed fearlessly towards Boy. Fortunately, Christian and Boy, though in adjacent compounds, were separated by a wire fence. In fury at the perceived slight, Boy flung himself against it - until Christian, suddenly realising his faux pas, slunk away with his belly close to the ground. This process was repeated over and over again until Adamson felt confident enough to allow the pair to meet without the safety barrier of the fence. "First, Boy left his compound," recalls Rendall. "Then Christian went out to meet him. "Boy took one look - and he clobbered him. Christian didn't fight back. He rolled over on his back. That went on for day after day, until Boy was obviously satisfied that Christian knew who was boss - and they became totally inseparable." Adamson had also acquired a female lion cub, Katania, to add to the pride, and she seemed to act as an intermediary between the two males. Each day, the three lions would go out for a walk in the bush, Boy first, Katania in the middle, then Christian - with Adamson, carrying a rifle in case he needed to scare anything off, at the rear. For Christian, there were some tricky moments, such as the time he spied a rhino and tried to stalk it, only for the beast to hurl him through the air in a cloud of dust. "I saw Boy turn and look at Christian," says Rendall. "There was a look on his face, as if to say: 'You absolute fool. What a howler of a blunder.'" Slowly, progress was made. The biggest threat to Christian and Boy were the wild lions that stalked the reserve, which Boy was fighting to establish as his territory. Then, one day, there was a tragedy that caused the whole project to be called into question. A chef called Stanley had left the safety of the compound to look for wild honey. He hadn't realised Boy was nearby, and when he saw him, he tried to flee. Running away was the worst action he could have taken. Adamson, hearing Stanley's screams, came running and shot Boy through the heart - but it was too late. Stanley had been bitten through the jugular and died an hour later. The outcry that followed almost brought the lion project to a halt, but Adamson found some support for his work among other conservationists, dug in his heels and carried on. John Rendall and Ace Berg continued to make sporadic visits to Kenya, but mostly they followed Christian's adventures from afar. Finally, in 1974, George Adamson wrote to say that the pride was self-sufficient. Christian was defending it. There was a litter of cubs. They were feeding themselves and rarely returned to camp. The King's Road lion had finally adapted to the wild. This was a bittersweet moment for all concerned. Rendall and Ace decided to travel to Kora one last time, in the hope of being able to say goodbye, though Adamson warned them that it would almost certainly be a wasted mission. "Christian hasn't been here for nine months. We have no reason to think he's dead - there have been no reports of lions poached or killed. But he may never come back," he said. Rendall recalls, "We said: 'OK. We appreciate that, but we'll come anyway and see you.'" They flew to Nairobi then took a small plane to the camp in Kora, where Adamson came out to meet them. "Christian arrived last night, " he said simply. "He's here with his lionesses and his cubs. He's outside the camp on his favourite rock. He's waiting for you." Adamson and his wife Joy often talked about the mysterious, apparently telepathic communication skills of lions - particularly between lions and men. Both believed that lions were possessed of a sixth sense and George was convinced that a scientific explanation would one day be found. And here, it seemed, was the proof. "Christian stared at us in a very intense way," says Rendall. "I knew his expressions and I could see he was interested. We called him and he stood up and started to walk towards us very slowly. "Then, as if he had become convinced it was us, he ran towards us, threw himself on to us, knocked us over, knocked George over and hugged us, like he used to, with his paws on our shoulders. "Everyone was crying. We were crying, George was crying, even the lion was nearly crying." "The lionesses were far from pleased. There was a lot of growling and spitting," continues Rendall. "'George said: 'This isn't safe - we'd better go.' So we each put a hand on Christian's back and he walked with us back to camp." The reunion party went on all night and into the morning. Leaving his exhausted companions to go to their beds, Christian returned to his pride. "We watched him go back to the two lionesses, who were not at all happy with this man, smelling of nicotine, whisky and humans," says Rendall. "He just walloped the two of them with his paw, then collapsed." And that was the last anyone ever saw of him. For the next 14 years, George Adamson remained at Kora, rehabilitating several other lions and ignoring warnings from the authorities, who did not consider it safe for him to stay. Then, in 1989, he was ambushed and murdered by bandits. He died with a gun in his hand and, in accordance with his wishes, was buried at Kora. Following his death, his supporters formed the George Adamson Wildlife Preservation Trust, which now does work in Kora as well as in Tanzania, where it is reintroducing the endangered black rhino and hunting dog. The trust's chief aim is keep alive Adamson's dream of a place where animals can roam free - a fitting epitaph not just for the great conservationist but also for the lion who once lived in Chelsea.
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I tried that, and also tried HTML Raw mode like the forum instructions says. Still didn't seem to work for me. Thanks though.
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You are such a computer guru Shellon! THANKS!
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I was sent this link to a Youtube video. I thought it was incredible. I never heard the story before even though it happened many years ago (1974). It is the story about a lion purchased from Harrod's in London, raised by two men, and finally released into the wild in Africa with the help of George Adamson the conservationist (killed in 1988). After adapting to the wild and having his own pride, his two rescuers decide to visit him one more time. It's SWEET!, (and apparently true!) You can read more about it on Snopes at: http://www.snopes.com/photos/animals/christian.asp I can't seem to figure out how to post the video itself, maybe someone else can do it for me. The video is here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adYbFQFXG0U <object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="<A href='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adYbFQFXG0U&hl=en&fs=1">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adYbFQFXG0U&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param'>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adYbFQFXG0U&hl=en&fs=1">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adYbFQFXG0U&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="<A href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adYbFQFXG0U&hl=en&fs=1">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adYbFQFXG0U&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>