exwaycorps

The computer sure seems to embolden some of you to say THE most AAAmazing things to one another. Just one more example of how these women were treated horribly by twi...only to get the same treatment (or worse) here. I cannot even imagine being faced with some of the things these women have been through. Can you ? Yet, some of you feel nothing at all about lauding YOUR OPINION, of them, up to the sky in what seems like an attempt to glorify YOUR knowledge,YOUR feelings,YOUR *superiority*over them on these very personal matters. They have obviously been deeply hurt. But, of course, YOUR opinion, summation of events (you know nothing about)... well... THAT'S THE IMPORTANT THING. Isn't it ? Their pain means nothing. right? Go ahead ...add to it!! As long as YOU get YOUR two cents in. That's what really matters in here huh? GOD FORBID WE GO THROUGH LIFE WITHOUT YOUR OPINION If some of these things were said *face to face* I'm sure you'd have more to deal with than you'd care to. Nobody would stand for that. I think the loved ones in their life would take exception to it. (just a hunch) Who among you would EVER DARE tell a rape victim that her rapist was a pretty cool guy ? or that she probably misunderstood him. Or "no way that really happened!!" OR telling a woman who believes she was FORCED into getting an abortion... that it's no big deal. "get over it!" I really don't think you would. So...why is it ok in here?? Going with the flow... Here's some thread ideas we can really sink our (very sharp) teeth into. I mean, why not? These things are being said anyway. Right? 1 you're a lying wh_re 2 keep your legs together b_tch 3 101 ways to rip each other up 3 twi... who needs them? we have each other (to bring down) 4 How i'm better than you (and I can provide scripture) 5 wh_re "de jour" 6 liar,liar (pants on fire) 7 here's how wrong you really are (IMHO) 8 "neener,neener,neener!!" 9 here's how I think you should have handled (your own life) 10 I know that was harsh but...(let me make it even worse for you, ok?) COME ON !!!! A lil "over the top" but sheesh Can we stop for a moment and think about how we're treating each other. Granted . We get mad etc. but... we're talking about people's LIVES here. Thank you in advance (risky,I know)

Love reading this stuff! thanks guys

THAT'S HILARIOUS!!! Twisted minds are far more common than great ones. It's a lot easier to be twisted than great. Great minds tends to stand out. Twisted minds "huddle" together trying to figure out how to be great,or how to topple the great ones and reduce them to being merely twisted like the majority. Is greatness inate or thrust upon one? Is being twisted contagious? A few great thoughts from a twisted mind ? or A few twisted thoughts from a great mind? or neither hahaha

Let this mouse blather on for just a sec. I'm no apologist (read my posts if you like,or not) pfal got me born again. I don't believe THAT was a scam or that I got duped (by that). That,to me,IS something of real,lasting value. Not mearly "bait". I believe that twi went to hell in a handbasket. I also believe that broad, sweeping generalizations (like yours) are always incorrect. Too many varied experiences to be swept under one VERY broad statement. Make room for MY experiences without insulting me and I'll do the same for yours. thankyouverymuch. exwaycorps (born again guy)

Columbus anyone ?????

If I may invoke the holy name of Oprah (the new messiah) just ask her ,she'll tell you ^ tongue in cheek NOT forgiving...only eats at YOU,not them

thanks "back at ya " Ex 10 Yes...boy pig lol

Hee Hee thanks I like to think the pig is laughing out loud. He's "up" for the role of Arnold in the remake of "Green Acres" That's why he got his teeth "done"

Wondering if any of you are around the cafe ?

I am thankful for this site. Harsh as it can be sometimes. I have learned sooo much from you guys. I'd like to express my gratitude and open it up for others to do the same. If we get "blessed" by somebody. Let's not wait. Let's speak it ! I don't expect everyone to post a LIST. I just wanted to kick it off. If you get "blessed" ,inspired or just want to express thanks to someone. Come in here and do it without waiting. NO SLAMS ok? I swear, I think I learn SOMETHING from each post. Even if it's just another way to look at something. Here goes. JUST A SMALL SAMPLING Otherwise this initial post would be FAR too long. You get the idea Suda ... you blow me away...kind... wise...When I see a post by you i can't wait to read it. Excathedra... Whoa! the way you put yourself "out there" often at your own personal cost, for others is amazing. Dot ... I feel your heart comming off the screen.You actually inspired me to start this thread. Johnny... loved the story of your father and you crack me up. dmiller... I sorta feel "undersheparded" by you in here. thanks man! Doreen... please come back rhino... you get to the "point". lame I know... just couldn't resist rocky...I love reading your thoughts, especially in the political arena. out there... you were the very first to welcome me and I thank you. John Jeudes... thanks for taking the heat and still comming back.Your site confirmed many things for me. Paw...thank you, thank you ,thank you ! Just a few of you that come to mind for me. There will be many more I'm sure. If this thread is allowed to continue and not fall off the map for lack of participation. I know we all are thankful for someone in here. I look forward to reading the posts. Might just be the boost somebody needs for the day. "Warm fuzzies" have their place. I hope this is it. Sappy? Perhaps.

I do Doreen. Shall we try to start afresh? :)

Dot...Suda Whoa !! First two posts I read this morning

WHAT A GREAT IDEA !!!! REALLY sends the message "don't mess with me... I'M PACKIN!" I'm getting some of those stickers!!! My BRAND NEW car (baby) was broken into only a month after I got it. One very expensive alarm system later...I still want those stickers !!!! Do you have to join to get them ????

I love that !

I agree. I really don't know what happened along the way. Tragic... how it turned out. I don't believe the heart that dreamed up twi..ORIGINALLY...(remember this word) dreamed it up as an alternative to a swingers club. I've often wondered how and when did it all go so very wrong. I wish I could turn back the clock to the very first time VPW was "tempted" and scream "DO NOT DO THIS!!!" But I can't. How, on earth, did it go from "wow" WORD OVER THE WORLD (very powerful vision) to 1-900-TWI-SEXY ??? I think it could have been the greatest thing ever. I thought it was. For years. Who knew ,one day, ... A lot of people would need healing because of it. Johnny, That was a powerful post about your dad's healing. Thank you. I'm glad you had the tools you needed for that situation. Whether pfal was stolen,inspired, or not (personally ,I think it was a combo deal) ...it worked for me too. I'm glad i had that opportunity. When I look back on my years in twi. I can't arrive at one single opinion of it. I have many. My experiences are just too varied. Can you imagine ...what it would be like today... if it hadn't "all gone south" WOW INDEED !!! More than anger (and there's a lot of it at times) is sadness. Here's how I see it: (horrible) 1<----------50---------->100 (awesome) Each memory places me at a different point on the spectrum. Lots of 1's, 50's, 75's, & 100's I guess there's room in my head for all of them. AND for hearing those different numbers ,from others , as well. One person's "75" does not "trump" another persons "10" and vice-versa. IMHO. None of our experiences are a carbon copy of another's. Opinions are like...um...hmmm...NOSES yeah! that's it.(cleaned up version) We all have them... AND no two are exactly alike (ok,ok... barring plastic surgery) One memory does not validate or nullify another. They are PERSONAL and UNIQUE... to that individual. there's my 2 cents... ( ok, 5)