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Bolshevik

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  1. https://www.keithleylaw.com/blog/2020/march/what-quarantining-does-to-high-conflict-people-a/ Welp, lawyers can set their clocks to this stuff . . . crafty bastids.
  2. Well the "need to feed" on others makes me wonder wtf narcissists had to do during quarantine . . . all alone . . . isolated They love their reflection off of other people . . . they cannot "self-reflect" . . . that's torture They want everyone else isolated . . . can you self-reflect when you're two-by-two with WOW Believer every f'ing second of the day? The painting in the video is nice but there's one by Waterhouse circa 1903 which also depicts Echo . . . kinda important in that dynamic. JMO
  3. Crazymaking language. Word Salad. Chaos for the sake of chaos. Disorienting. The point is there is no point. A backdoor for supply. Or Twigleader 101.
  4. "Prior to his death the loss of narcissistic supplies from worshipful sycophants causes a mental breakdown characterized by observable psychosis in the courtroom". About 23 minutes in. Refering to the Japanese culture leader. Fascinating they can be "starved to death" like that. Hilighting they need the rest of us far more than we need them. VPW's final days? I assume he went through withdrawal?
  5. The Word takes the place of the absent Christ. Grandiosity takes the place of the absent ego. Self entertained mode: ON
  6. "Getting possessed" is a projection of the narcissist's self-hatred onto you. You got too close to reality. Unacceptable. You'll accept this "possessed" nonsense onto yourself and others in order to get closer to the leadership. Protect the absent ego at all costs. You chose this arrangement because. . . .
  7. The narcissist loves the reflection of themselves that others show them. However, there is no true self to fellowship with. They must draw people in for supply and in time discard when those same people get too close. The organization reflects its founder. By definition it cannot be transparent. By definition it cannot change. It only exists on a reflection of a reflection. Even when the founder lived there was no center. PLAF is an invitation to a house of mirrors.
  8. You're right. While quite informative, Mr. Slartibartfast can be bit of a downer at times. Staying ahead of the monotony would be a better skill.
  9. https://psych2go.net/10-things-narcissists-fear/ https://www.longdom.org/open-access/narcissistic-mortification-shame-and-fear-63949.html You can google more. So much yackity smackity about FEAR and constantly needing to bring people in and then thinking of new ways label and divide them or just kick them out. Also, 42.
  10. Wait . . . there's no Board of Trustees. Sneaky Mike.
  11. Bolshevik

    The Cones of 2021

    We don't name earthquakes, tornados, blizzards, tsunamis? https://oceanservice.noaa.gov/facts/storm-names.html#:~:text=Storms are given short%2C distinctive names to avoid confusion and streamline communications&text=In 1953%2C the United States,storms in the Atlantic basin. Seems personal. Like they want to be remembered. I often work to forget names. Any storm can damage property and take lives. . . . Hurricanes come for the soul . .
  12. Acts of Service - It's one of the "5 Love Languages". And it contains the word "Acts". Making it Biblical, and for our day, time and hour. Folks with poor boundaries give more, because they love more. It's Da Werd.
  13. . . . I've read he's either NPD and also Borderline PD. I swear I read somewhere, can't seem to find it. . . the borderlines would typically be the middle-management in a cult setting.
  14. Fear of rejection as institutional practice. The organization hates itself and scapegoats followers in self defense. Otherwise it would cease to exist. Coffee. Need coffee.
  15. A narcissist explaining the mind of a narcissist. Is it the perfect con? Just look at the audience . . . familiar spirits indeed. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=euGhNMifaw8
  16. It's God in Christ in YOU God Bless YOU, YOU are the best. Shure luve YA YOU have power from on high I personally remember fear and threats for most of my experience. I did hear items above, like crumbs from the table. For others I'm sure the love-bombing was too good to be true and who doesn't want to hold on to that? People will are willing to take abuse if they think they can earn their way back to "the good 'ole dayz". It is a shared fantasy with the leadership. Self delusion feels good and is a band-aid for pain. You have to consider the possibility god does not like you. He never wanted you. He probably hates you. - another misquote from some fantasy
  17. I think it was Dr. Sam Vaknin. I don't know about his substance uses. Probably not a guy you'd want to know on a personal level. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sam_Vaknin
  18. "The key to recovering from narcissistic abuse is to confront one's own narcissism" - probable misquote of some guy on YouTube
  19. TLDR "pro-PFAL people" ................? TWI prefers acronyms so "PPP" might fit. Or P^3, P-Cubed Block heads. Got it. Please continue.
  20. "Hitler was a poor tramp and it needed the acclaim of the Germans to make Hitler what he became. This the exhibition tries to reflect. It is about propaganda and it is about the means of his attraction." https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-11542473 When in doubt find a BBC documentary and quote about Hitler.
  21. But, Love IS obedience, right? https://psychcentral.com/lib/can-a-narcissist-love/
  22. The grave accepts folks from those days every day. There's no point waiting for change. Give them new names in your mind. They cannot be who they are needed to be. Frame them as someone else. Your expectations can then be lower.
  23. "I watched helplessly as language became an obstacle" Anyone actually reading this?
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