Personally, I'd like to not hear about any of this. It isn't my business. I can't do anything about it. I don't like to make decisions without all the data - and I have no need for all the data.
This is a private matter that needs to be solved privately - or dropped. Otherwise, it just feeds a rumor mill - and we all know where that leads.....
This isn't my business - so I'm leaving it alone.