There may be a language hurdle to make here TMVP. I believe you said english isn't your first language. Whatever your native language is, you're doing better with english than I would with yours or any other for that matter english is all I know, a few words and phrases of Spanish, German and French. Enough to get me kicked out of any decent restaurant if I go too far trying. So I'm not much help in that area, but you're doing fine, friend.
This is pretty side tracked off the "mansions" topic, like I said I don't know much about that, those, whatever.
The life topic is pretty simple to my mind. I'm getting we aren't coming to the same conclusion which is fine. Hopefully what I'm positing has made some sense, but I'm not sure from your responses what you mean, which may go both ways, if so, don't sweat it. .
Many religions have imaged their deities as persons, with names, physical features and what are more or less "super powers", compared to humans. They live somewhere and fuss and fight amongst themselves and occasionally it spills over into human affairs, not always a good thing by their accounts.
Although "Jehovah" came and went at times, and visited and dwelt and spoke and heard, the God of the O.T. made it clear He's not one among many, He's it. No names, no dwelling place of human construction holds or frames Him. I might conjecture that the gods of ancient religions (and more current ones too) reflect the creations of Jehovah, angels and the like, and their affairs throughout time that have intersected with man. "gods" may be ways to tell the piecemeal stories of what's gone on throughout time in God's realm. I really don't know, just a thought.
Jehovah - the name alone constructs the framing of how He's understood by that name - God in covenant relationship with people, "His" people. God's people are apparently very important to HIm but not the only business He's involved in or with, seems fairly clear.
My point is what the bible says - God doesn't dwell in temples made by us. God's dwelling place is described as with - "in" - His people. Christianity describes the role of Jesus Christ, Yeshuah in that.
For many years I think I struggled with "visualizing" God - I spoke about him in very human physical terms, and yet I really had no understanding of what that was really like or might be, in reality. I knew something was going on though and it wasn't hmmm, "this", what I see and hear of the physical. I hesitate to go much further than that because, at the risk of sounding like a goof, I believe that "true reality" must reveal itself to each one of us and it will become clear as it does. Some will see it differently, that's normal.
We aren't all right but we can all try. If I come to find I'm completely wrong, nuts and crazy, that's okay too. Shoot us for trying, right?